Love or Parents?

Well thanks a ton for posting this discussion. For me there is no point in discussing whom to choose between my love and my parents for there is no person on earth who can replace my parents. They are like gems that cannot be expressed in words. No matter how much crunchy situation u must be, your parents are always there to support u, there is no guarantee that your love will be by your side every time. For me there was, is and would be no person on earth who can replace my parents. What say?

Your parents are the only people on Earth who will always be there for you no matter what you do. Your loved ones (Boyfriends/Girlfriends) may not always be there when you're hurt, especially if they were the ones who hurt you. I'm not sure if your question is hypothetical or if it is referring to a dispute between your parents and your loved ones, but there is no one else alive who cares as much about you as your parents do.

I also will choose my parent. I also got love from my parent. So, love from a girl that I just knew is nothing compare to them. And if I found a girl to choose her or my parent, I will tell her to just go back home and don't waist my money and precious time. This means the girl want to control us. Don't know what will happen after the marriage, maybe we get queen control. I believe I can never find love that my parent has gave me, not to mention about their sacrifice.

Welcome to mylot I appreciate this discussion, as per your profile you are from india Here most of the families are combined families, where you can find 3 to 4 generations live in same house together peacefully One can get a lover several times but never parents

Always parents. No matter how much i love the guy considering my parents would be my #1 choice. Parents would always be there for you no matter what. Love would always come and go plus if the person really love you they would not defy and would support your reason. I guess this situation would never be a problem if everything can be talked out nicely and every side should have a chance to be heard.

I will also choose my parents,they are my first priority. After that I will consider any one else...

I have been very lucky in my life so far because my parents have always approved of the person who I have been with. If they didn't approve, then I would have to think seriously about the reasons that they didn't like him. If they had a specific issue with him then I would have to think about whether they were right or not as they always have my best interests at heart. If they really didn't like him then I don't think that there is any chance that things would work out, as I am close to my family and they have to be happy with everything that I do.

I don`t feel that parents make sacrifices for their children. I rather feel that parents love their children, want the best for them and make it one of the goals of their life (which makes them gappy) to give them the best life they can. And one of the things the parents must do at one time is to let go and let their children (grown now) to choose their own way. That is a choice of love. I, as a daughter, chose my love. I, as a parent, let my daughters choose their love. If they had problems, I was there for them. If they were happy, I was happy too, but they did not then have so much time for me. And it`s ok.

I agree with you. Sometimes I think whenever I have complications in my relationship, I would like to choose to be single and be with my family and friends.. It is a good choice!

For me, I definitely choose my parents. Because I know they love me a lot and they trust me. If they don't approve to my choosen girl to love there must be a strong reason behind it. I believe that parents don't object for no reason, they just want to make us happy and they know there must be a right girl for me. Whatever our parents have said till now has been true. I have always listened to them And it all been right.

I choose parents, simply because they show us the real love that we have not experienced before... ...good day!...