Leaving someone you really love

I sure had my share of that. I had to let go of my feelings for this particular guy coz even if how much we have proved to each other that we both love each other, it wasn't possible for us to continue our relationship. We were together for 2 years and even though it really broke my heart to leave him, it was something I had to do to ensure his safety.

There are things in a relationship that someone has to sacrifice just for the sake of the another for their happiness. But I know this is not right specially when you both love each other. And sometimes life is not fair, when we love it means were ready to get hurt..

I don't agree with this. If you truly love the person you wouldn't let her/him go no matter what. If she/he needs to spread her/his wings then you could help her/him out, both if you could conquer it together, help out each other. I think this is the very essence of how to make your relationship strong, the time you shared together.

honestly i don't understand why anyone would leave someone they really love, this is hurting two persons at a time, why not spread wings and fly anywhere together?

In my opinion, yes, he should go. But when you get a couple of years of dependence, things get a little complicated. You should leave it up to him, if he really loves you to the extinct he claims, then he'll make the right decision. If he don't agree then that should tell you something both about your relationship with him. The only choice is for you is to stay or go. It's the only real decision you have there. Goodluck".

I agree to that, because if you really love each other, you will help yourselves in order for you to be happy. but you'll be friends. to let go of someone, just like your favorite t-shirt, you donate it. you will miss it but someone deserves it. is it?... ...good day!...

it`s dillema i think but if the decision is better than you and her/him, why you don`t do it.. it hurts for you and her/him..but??

If your love is unrequited, you may leave to ease the pain and start something new. There's no use in affirming and reiterating how much you love that person, hoping he or she will reciprocate your feelings. I experienced this first hand. It's aching but I need to make a move to control my own life. My happiness really depends on me, not on anyone else. That's why I'm a drifter. LOL