Height difference

Hmm.. sounds to me you get frustrated on this matter. For me, its not truly the height but your interaction and how you court your women. I am a short man and my girlfriend is taller than me, maybe one(1) inch or more,..,but I don't find it an obstacle but rather a challenge..hahaha I think you just did not find the right girl for you, the one that will accept whatever your physical appearance is, even if your small,fat,ugly..etc, if a woman loves you then she will love you whatever you are. Just think positive, love moves in mysterious ways, you can find many couples out there who can show you that physical attributes is not a hindrance for their love.

Ow, i sincerely apologize for that. i stand 5'6" tall and i am quite taller with my husband who stands 5'4". at first, when i was still on my teenage years, i dreamt of having a husband who is taller than me, ofcourse, i thought that if that will be the case, i will feel more secured. however, as years went by and as i became more matured, i realized that it is not about being that or this. but it's more about being loved, trusted, and respected. i don't need a man who is tall enough for me to feel secured but doesn't respect and trust me at all. it's not about physical preferences. and if somebody loves you, he/she will accept every little thing about you. i hope you will find the right woman for you who will not love you because of what she sees on the outside :)

Oh geez... When i was a teenager, i hated the fact that i was tall. I can't wear high heels even though i wanted too. First because my girlfriends were shorter than me so u tend to tower them most of the time. Secondly, i also towered my guy friends too! So i always end up wearing flat shoes. Anyway, as a tall girl, i also end up being courted by guys who are shorter than me. So i guess i could help you understand about why some girls doesn't like guys who are shorter than them. ^__^ personally, i like guys who are taller than me. I guess that's actually normal but i also liked aome guys who were shorter than me (because they are kind, sweet and for all other reasons that would make me exempt the guys height) in other words... I like the guy! You see, sometimes taller girls would go for shorter guys if there is an exemption if not it was always mainly because of the height.

I believe that's a stereotype and it only depends on the person who perceive to be like that. My wife is taller than me, so I can relate here. If that tall girl does not like you, then so be it, you can check on other girls that accepts you regardless of who you are, regardless of your physical characteristics. I believe that appearance can be decieving, whats really important now is what's inside. Good luck. Thanks

I think it is not much a problem when the girl is of your height.. I would suggest you not to worry about the height. It is natural and you can't change it so no use worrying over it. You can do one thing and that is to build self confidence in you. the one made for you will come soon in your life and she will not look at your height but your heart. Just keep your heart clean for her..lol, Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.

Well, that only shows that the girl is only after the image. If one truly likes you, she wouldn't even care how tall or short you are. Just keep on looking for that special girl that will accept your height. Sometimes, it's not very important, as long as you remain true to your intentions and really nice to be with. It's about character.

I really dont like my men to be shorter then me either its just not what I go looking for in a guy. But I dont think that people should exclude guys just because they are shorter then them. First they need to get to know someone and doing that it doesnt matter what someones height is. If love develops then what does height really matter anyway.

My sister is married to a guy shorter than her. Well for them it doesnt matter a lot. But sometime it does espcially when they are being photographed together. Just be patient, there will be someone intended for you.

A lot of short guy prefer short girls you are different from the majority. Well if any woman here say it doesnt matter they are lying. Woman want to feel protected and in the men arms , not us holing him and screwing in a light bulb. It also just look weird , to see a tall girl with a short guy leaning on her shoulder . If the person love you and you love them , then prove to her that their is more to you than just your height .

it's not an issue to me, if i was the woman. falling in love with someone would mean appreciating everything about that person, and mostly it's about the innate qualities of a person. i think it would be best for a woman to turn down a man and not talk about it anymore. if one rejects an offer of love, it would be mainly because the woman does not feeling anything for the man. some women though are vain that they desire physically perfect men. most of these relationships are shallow and could end soon. love just happens, i believe, even if a woman or a man had set standards of what their partner should be and should look like. most of the time, it really does not work this way for love. there will be a perfect woman for you but as i see it you also has set a standard for a partner. if you are attracted to tall women, some women are attracted to tall men, too. fair game, isn't it?

Those women who said that are only in for physical attraction. Though it is what's happening mostly, there are some women who are not like that. I have seen a lot of couples where the women is taller than men. My cousin is a great example. He's only 5'9" while his wife is 6 feet tall! His wife is someone who is never bothered by height at all. I wouldn't be too as long as I like the man's personality.

it happens in most cases,and i find it quite difficult to match up with the height difference since its quite abnormal

Well i can understand your problem very much because i too have a short height. In spite of the fact that many people comment on my height has never deterred my confidence level. It is never your fault when u have a short height. It is by nature and sometimes the genes that are responsible for it. Not everyone can become taller. U should feel proud and content with your features and just give a damn to whatever people say. Coming back to finding a right woman for u, i am sure there is somewhere a beautiful talented girl waiting for u who would love out for your heart and not your height. Rest all other girls are fake. What say?

Yeah some woman don't need heart love but only eyes am not suprice to hear this kind thing from you,but know that any woman who open mouth and talk that kind thin is not your true lover just only eyes love.