don't say sorry ,if you don't like me
@quanquanzhang (504)
China
11 responses
@quanquanzhang (504)
• China
29 Sep 12
friends?i have never thought about it,perhaps what you say is right.good luck!
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
28 Sep 12
Hmmmm I agree with hesty sorry is the best word for doing wrong thing and to leave from it hehe...just kidding. But you are right sorry is the best word to accept our mistake.
@quanquanzhang (504)
• China
29 Sep 12
if you really love him.when you hear "sorry",you will feel worse,i hope he say nothing.good luck!
@lologirl2021 (5542)
• United States
28 Sep 12
YOu are correct with your saying. I have to agree if you dont like me or want to be around me then why bother say sorry about it just go on with your life and ill go on with mine, i dont need someone in my life that doesnt want me around theirs. Its easy to live your life with people that likeyou and watn you to be around in there life. I also dont want to be around people i dont like either its just that easy.
@quanquanzhang (504)
• China
29 Sep 12
i agree,i can atay with the people who love us and we love,good luck!
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
28 Sep 12
What would you want to hear instead if somebody refuses you? I think sorry is the only word fit for that situation.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
28 Sep 12
this feeling is common among young people -- not being able to accept the NO from a person of our choice-- this feeling will be there for a few days and thereafter has to get erased. it will.
In reality no living being should depend on any other person/thing for living or sustenance. If one concentrates on his work or studies then automatically this bad feeling will go.
@skyandgrassplot (1497)
• China
29 Sep 12
Hi dear quanquanzhang,yes love is the mutual things,definitely,but actually I think he owe you something.Have you ever watched the Tokyo Love Story?
Akana Rika speak to Nagano Ji"you no need to feel sorry on me,but you owe me happiness."
@Belle_of_the_Ball (896)
• Philippines
29 Sep 12
Rejection is one of hardest thing to accept for some people. And saying "NO" is also not easy on the part of the person who is rejecting. So,what's the easiest way to reject someone's affection? For me, there is no easy way because you'll always feel guilty for hurting someone else's feelings.To say "sorry" is the least thing that you can do to lessen the pain of rejection. Perhaps, if someone would propose affection to me and I don't feel the same way, I would rather say, "thank you but I can only reciprocate your feelings with friendship".
@quanquanzhang (504)
• China
29 Sep 12
i think what you say is right,saying "sorry" is not easy.good luck!
@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
31 Oct 12
Seems this is meant for some one special, you are right in saying you want his love not the word sorry..
If i think i did some wrong or hurt a person, i am ready to say Sorry and beg apology
@alberello (4752)
• Italy
28 Sep 12
Well, in a sense, I agree with you, in fact, in Italy exists a saying that "those who do not want you, _ do not deserve !"
Now, I do not know if your discussion is based mainly on online friendships (sites which Mylot or even Facebook), or you're talking to people you know personally.
Now, if someone rejects my friends online, I am the first to ignore it. However, if someone tries rancor towards me, first I would like to deepen why, then, as it should be, better that everyone goes their own way.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
28 Sep 12
alberello
You are right in way. But love cannot be got out of compulsion. If one doesn't like the other they need not stay together or work together and if per chance they are married --they should try to forget the negative points in another and accept. If that is not possible get away from the person.
In reality however we always run after the person we like without realising tht we cannot force the other person. There may be so many reasons for liking a person and disliking a person.
In online --I make my friend request and if inspite of logging in for two or three days that member is not accepting it --we do not have a provision to check why?--i cancel the request. that is a good move--I think.
In real life for young people like our friend it is mostly day to day meeting with another person -- with or without the intention of living together or getting married -- here the tasts, education, status, likes, dislikes have to match to some extent otherwise one has to feel obliged to another to give up more and more.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
28 Sep 12
quanquanzhang:
Nobody will refuse you if the avatar given is your photo. At the same time we cannot expect everybody to accept every other person. each of us need only one person to fall in love with us and it is perfectly in order for more than one person to say No to us. You do not want sorry to be told and it is fine.
If any person has told sorry to you for this --forget about him and try to find another suitable partner who can match your tastes, likes, status.
keep yourself busy with work, studies, social service.
best wishes
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
28 Sep 12
Well i completely appreciate your thoughts. Sorry is one such word that makes u feel guilty when anyone says u. U feel like u are forcing him to tell sorry and apologize for the mistake. We should have a big heart so that we can give everyone a second chance or opportunity to revert back his mistakes and learn from it. Even i feel a bit awkward when someone says sorry to me.
What say?
@quanquanzhang (504)
• China
29 Sep 12
i agree with you,i think he has no reasons to say "sorry"to me,good luck!
@misjoseph (162)
•
3 Jan 13
Well if you don't like me, i find there is no need to say sorry at all. It is better to say you don't like me that pretending you do and later in life you will look for an excuse and say sorry....
