I lost my best friend
By anuraga
@anuraga (41)
Australia
September 28, 2012 4:44am CST
Friendship make me the sweet felling about my life. My best friend is jane. Unexpectedly she stop every relationship with me since last evening. I asked what is the reason but she rejected to even talk about the matter with me. I get hurt so much and I can't believe she has lost me forever. I need to ask whats the matter with me but she rejects talk with me. So my friends, what shall I do to know why she rejects me.
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14 responses
@Raine38 (12250)
• United States
28 Sep 12
Can you remember something that you have or said, or didn't do or say to her that could have estranged her to you? How long has it been? Maybe she just needs some time alone to calm down and be at peace. Maybe then, she would be ready to talk to you. I know that you guys just don't go from being best friends to nothing overnight. There has got to be a good reason for this.
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1 Oct 12
if she's realy angry with u,ther must be a reson.so remind what u had done for her and wht's wrong there.if u can get there's a mistake from u,,pleace ask her to forgive u @least by an email.so defanitly she'l be cool and everything will be ok.coz she's your best friend.....
@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
30 Sep 12
Try writing her a letter. She may or may not respond, but it's worth taking a chance.
@nirosha1984 (13)
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1 Oct 12
friends can't stay so far away from each other,so i think she just get angry with u for a simple thing.but may be now she get that she has do a very big mistake. so defanitly she'l come soon to u.then pleace forgive her.coz she is ur best friend and that is the real friendship
@nadeesha123 (1)
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1 Oct 12
Im sure,,,she's not stop the friendship.may be she's checking you or she just kidding.so don't worry,always she's your friend....
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
29 Sep 12
It is always great to have good friends in life. I hope you get a very good friend in the future.
@natliegleb (5175)
• India
29 Sep 12
that is so horrible to hear.always best friends are rare to come,i cherish them forever and live my life with them.hope you get over it
@thewonderboy (7501)
• India
29 Sep 12
I think you should find out the reason why she had taken such a harsh decision. May be it can be a simple silly mistake from you which had caused it but I am sure that she had hurted it a lot. You treat those wounds with love,care and all human emotions which can give your good friend back
@goldtc (40)
• United States
29 Sep 12
Hello anuraga,
If I'm reading your post correctly, it's only been about one day since your friend has spoken to you. I would suggest giving her some time and "space" and reach out to her again in few days. It seems you said or did something (whether you're aware of it or not) that has upset her very much. She sounds like she needs time to calm down.
@liuhanliang666 (65)
• China
29 Sep 12
When I see the discussion, I feel very sad. friendship is very important in my life,I very hate of rebell against friends each other.I believe misunderstanding in your friendship,so you attempt to attact her in other ways, I believe she will become your best best best friend,when misunderstanding is reslove.
@powerpuffgirls (627)
• Philippines
29 Sep 12
Ouch! :( it makes me wonder why she did that too :(
Maybe she has this really serious problem and she doesn't want to let you feel the pain too or something. But I guess you should really need to see her or go to her house instead if she oppose on seeing you. You two should talk about it. Being best friends for a long time, definitely she has a reason for you to be heard
@alvinmendez69 (28)
• Philippines
29 Sep 12
I agree, give her time and space. Later on, she will realize that rejecting to talk with you is her mistake too. Maybe it is just a lil' misunderstanding between your friendship.
