Afraid of being lonely is not a excuse

@cmy1004f (381)
China
September 28, 2012 10:25am CST
Even if you afraid of being longly, also can not use this as an excuse to in love with someone please you only by sweet words. People who warming you are the kind really care you, so it is really very very wrong you not only don't listen to them but also force them accept a love liar. Love is the only thing on the world, because both people in the world bron alone, at last die alone. So don't use afraid of lineliness as an excuse to casually mess in the end you still pay for what you done, whether tangible or intangible. All above are I want to say to one of my relative, I know he can't listen to me so I have to express the mood here.
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@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
30 Sep 12
I so much prefer to be alone well alone is the wrong word for me to use, I prefer to be single, as in the song 'it's better to be alone than in bad company' I am not afraid to be alone, I am afraid to be with someone! I find it hard to share my life with someone, I have been in a couple of bad relationships, and I have actually jumped from one bad relationship to another, just because my new partner's loving words that they knew I wanted to hear, I listened to them and not my heart, but it was a big mistake, their loving, warm words covered up the darkness they had inside of them, and it was too late to find out! So now my life is my own and I live it alone but happy.
@cmy1004f (381)
• China
2 Oct 12
Two people love eachother and get along with is a deep knowledge, it is not so simple. I heard that to really understand a person at least 20 years, so it is too superficial that make sure someone is a partner for life just know a few months. As long as the state of mind is good, even if single life also can very happy.
• Philippines
30 Sep 12
hi cmy, I find it selfish I rather be alone that to used someone for my own good happy mylotting
@cmy1004f (381)
• China
2 Oct 12
Everyone have own choice of lifestyle, but the key is don't let everyone worry about you.
@joliefille (3690)
• Philippines
28 Sep 12
I agree with this. So many people make the mistake of falling in love by actually falling in lust and it creates even more domino heartaches than just 1 person involved.
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@cmy1004f (381)
• China
2 Oct 12
Right, only to see the present happiness is not a rational act with considering the consequences.
• India
29 Sep 12
Hi friend, we must learn to live alone, as we born alone and die alone, in between days we have lot of friends and relatives in our life. But it is not a good thing to expect our friends and relatives to stay with us forever, we must face our issues and life with our confidence and don't be afraid to live alone
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@cmy1004f (381)
• China
2 Oct 12
Yes, everyone is lonely actually. Maybe you can have a lot of friends but when you should go away this world, no one will beside you at that moment.