can you make friends with them ,so secular?
@quanquanzhang (504)
China
September 28, 2012 7:02pm CST
yesterday,i taked with a collenge,i wanted to make friends with her,but i thought i could't do it at last, she has no dream,and so secular,she don't know what she likes,she only worry about the price of eatting,i can't endure it,what do you think?
4 responses
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
29 Sep 12
If you think that she is not interesting and you do not have things in common, no use of putting up a face when she is around. You can be just civil with her. But, if you think you might want to know more about her and see your differences, then you might also end up being friends coz friends do not have all things in common. And the diversity will make your friendship even more exciting.....just a thought.
@quanquanzhang (504)
• China
29 Sep 12
i feel sad because there are few girls around me who has the same age with me,i think it is hard for me to make a friend.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
29 Sep 12
Age shouldn't be a hindrance in making friends. Don't you realize that you can actually learn a lot of things from them coz they have been through a lot more than you have? Share experiences and opinions on different matters and you will see that it is as interesting to be in a group of people of your age. If you want to gain friends, you have to be open to different kinds of people-age, race, religion, etc.
@quanquanzhang (504)
• China
29 Sep 12
with the age grow,they have no passion for life,i don't like it.
@fashionfever (2200)
• Indonesia
29 Sep 12
I like to be friends with anyone whatever their belief, whether she has dreams or not...as long as the person has no bad intention I would like to be friend the person.
I know you are maybe bored with your friend because she only talks about 1 subject and keep worrying all the time, if you are not comfortable and bored with the subject you can change the subject of the conversation little by little. Maybe she is a shy person and not used to share her dreams with other. Or maybe because you just know her in short time, you havent figure out her real personality.
@fashionfever (2200)
• Indonesia
29 Sep 12
that's so nice of you wanting to try to be friend with the girl. I hope everything is going well and you will have a new friend. I just started university again after a long break... and then I have new classmates, i only meet them 1x but hope I will be good friend with them.@quanquanzhang (504)
• China
29 Sep 12
i agree with you,i should wait for a time,perhaps my thoughts will change!
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@911Ricki (13588)
• Canada
29 Sep 12
I'm a little confused with your discussions. But I think you can make friends with anyone just give it time, and start up a conversation. I have gone and emt someone a few times, and became good friends with them. Just open up, and strike up a conversation.
@jknirdhan (50)
• India
1 Oct 12
perfect people are never made friends! its the friendship that changes the person !
