I was thinking to not have any ...

Oh that is so sad Shy is everything okay now? Why don't you try to ask your mom to stay with you for a while till you give a birth? You can have both of them plus your parents at the same time

oh taht must be so hard for you and for your daughter My daughter is a mommy's girl too even she is 6 yo, she won't leave me alone too she will ask me to go with me everywhere i go I hope everything is easier now

Everything is fine I had my son 5 weeks ago. He was only about 4 weeks early compared to his big sister who was 5 weeks early. The reason why I couldn't have anyone stay with me till my baby was born means they would have to take off of work for about 2 months which no body could do. My mom came up and stayed for 2 weeks with us after my son was born like planned to help easy my daughter into having a new sibling. Having my daughter around while I was on bed rest would have broke her little heart she is only 1.5 years old try to explain to a small child of that age why mom is on bed rest, why mommy can't play with you and then me going in to the hospital a week after she left would have been even harder for her because then she wouldn't have left me at the hospital I didn't want her to see mommy all hooked up with IV's and nurses coming and going. It was bad enough for my husband missing work for almost a month because he stayed pretty much every night and day with me. My daughter is a mommy's girl so it's hard to get her to leave me alone even to just pee and be alone in the bathroom for 5 minutes.

I can conclude from all your discussion that your son means so much to you sometimes I just complain that why I have kids while in my teenagers age I really hate them maybe God just want to show me that kids make the adults world more colorful

I was too young too when i was giving a birth Thanks to Allah now I had passed my hardest time Now I enjoy to have them by my side we have the bond since I take care all of the things that they need

I've also been having similar thoughts, when I was pregnant. I was pregnant at the age of 21. I was still too young, and I think, will lose my freedom, because I have to take care of my child. But, after I held, and nursed my son, all thought was lost.

Your childhood is 'past' now and this should effect you no more. Enjoy life with kids.

I know this is true but my gloomy childhood makes me hate kids i guess i am so lucky to have a chance being in love to them plus i can get them without going to the doctor

I try my best to enjoy it but it seems my childhood hunt me

That is what makes us human and moms the best on the planet. you become a mom? You don't have a heart to reject all her demands including eating choco and candy all day long..

I wish I could ever be anywhere near to mom... How about - buying her chocos and candy and then we eating them together

Oh Sid.. I believe you will be a good mom sharing those chocos and candy together I bet you will have so many wholes in your teeth as well as your daughter Like father ,like daughter eh?

Hi baby I wish your dream come true it is good to have a big family when special occasion arrived all the member of family from different place will gather that makes a happy moment ever

That is right maybe if i never had a child i will hate kids forever you know..sometimes they are so naughty

The things that i hate is they fight all the ttime if they gather in the night It isonly calm when they all are asleep or when they go to school

I know, I have four boys... Things are calmer now that they are teenagers already. But there were some chaotic times when they were younger and just being kids...

ah Sibhie... Hope you success to make one Have you learn from the expert how to make a good kid?