Why people does not use their own photos are Avatars?
@yugasini (12893)
Secunderabad, India
September 29, 2012 10:50am CST
HI Mylot friends,
The inquiry is for me likewise, I too does not utilize my initial photograph as my avatar. Individuals who does not look great looking or grand will put different things as their avatars. In any case to my shock some individuals utilize absolutely weird/ugly/fearful avatars. Each form wish to show up as exceptional, assuming that it is right why individuals utilize some flurry avatars. And then I have perceived that some folks does not utilize Avatars not under any condition why, what is your interaction about avatar pictures.
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15 responses
@Inderjeetkaur (944)
• India
29 Sep 12
I fear the misuse of photos on the internet and this is the sole reason for not uploading my picture. I haven't uploaded my pic anywhere on the internet whether it be orkut, facebook, or as an avatar on any forum site. I like using flower pic as my avatar, though I haven't used any here. I agree that our photo is our identity proof, but what's the sense of proving your identity at the cost of it being misused.
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
30 Sep 12
Hi Inderjeetkaur,
Thanks for the response, I do not have any that fear that some body use my photo for miss use. Because this is not my photo it is my ex staff son's photo, I like it and I kept it as my avatar photo for this site and for all other site also. If you fear to use your photo how can you face the society and this is our recognition of photo in our avatar.
@Inderjeetkaur (944)
• India
1 Oct 12
@fashionfever - You are right, we have given our identity proof to the admin in the form of our id and address. admin doesn't require our photo and therefore it is not that necessary to upload our pic. I agree that uploading one's own pic will let others know you by face also, but it's fine with me even otherwise also.
@yugasini - Dear friend, I do not fear facing the society in personal. Neither do I drop my face at home before meeting someone. It is just that there are many people on the internet who misuse the pics (especially of girls) and put it on some not so good sites. I fear such people and therefore I prefer not to upload my own pic anywhere.
@fashionfever (2200)
• Indonesia
30 Sep 12
I agree with you, I too do not upload my personal picture on my profile page or as my avatar. I always upload my handmade or anything that I take using my camera but no I wont upload my personal/face picture. The admin has my identity and address in their data base anyway, Im a real person whether I uploaded my self picture or not.
I dont really believe that self picture can represent the person because there are people who looks photogenic in picture and there are people who are not photogenic, different angle when taking picture can caused different result, makeup also can make someone looks different in picture than in real life. I value people's opinion whether they have self picture or not.
@allknowing (136540)
• India
30 Sep 12
From the safety angle putting one's own image is discouraged. Morphing is the first thing that comes to mind.
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
30 Sep 12
HI allknowing,
Thanks for the response, any time you can be cheated or your photo to be morphed that I know. Any how now your avatar photo is beautiful colour chaning flower avatar, so we can see lot of colours to your avatar picture. I do not wish to change my present avatar for ever and I am using the same avatar in other sites also, have a nice day.
@allyoftherain (7208)
• United States
30 Sep 12
Well I've never wanted to use a photo of me because I don't like my face. lol, actually it's kind of a combination of things. I don't really want to completely lose my anonymous mask. I don't want people to judge me because of how I look, or God-forbid recognize me in public. And I don't like my face.
So my avatar is a butterfly on an arm. It's not even my arm! It's my sister's. lol Maybe one day in the future I'd use a picture of me, but at the moment I doubt it.
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
30 Sep 12
Hi Allyoftherain,
Thanks for the response, why your are fearing with your real face. You may be good person may be your face is not good to look just like me, some people does like only outer beauty of the people and not inner beauty of the people. But some people like inner beauty and not outer beauty, this is your wish and will have a nice day.
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@allyoftherain (7208)
• United States
30 Sep 12
I don't really think I'm ugly (not the majority of the time anyway) but I still don't want people to judge me because of how I look. I mean, we can talk up and down about the importance of inner beauty and how it's really what's on the inside that counts, but human beings do judge based on looks even when they claim they don't. And you know, my face is not who I am, so I don't really want my face plastered next to everything I say.
So, I'm curious, what's your reason for not using your own face as your avatar? I am assuming that's not your face. If it is, you look a little young to be using the internet. (See? There's a judgement based on looks! )
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
30 Sep 12
hello yugasini,
the first picture avatar i have is that of a tigress which eventually was changed to my own picture. then there were comments that they prefer seeing my picture hence the picture is seen. i do not claim being attractive, not even photogenic. although there was another picture am trying to find to replace the old one.
but you know what? i would also like to see the real person i am interacting with. there is nothing wrong with being unattractive or plain in the picture. the face is etched in the memory and ones you see it, you get to have a name for it. right? like i see u as a very smart baby because thats what u place there. though i really want to see another face belonging to you.
ann
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
30 Sep 12
HI Ann,
Thanks for the response, above all your avatar picture I love and like one of your avatar picture. but you have removed that avatar photo this is also ok,but that is very lovely photo. Several times I have praised about that photo, do you remember that or not. This photo avatar is good though you are aged looking good, have a ncie day.
@jkct02 (2874)
• Kota Kinabalu, Malaysia
30 Sep 12
Because it is not the regulation here that we have to use our pictures as the avatars. That is the reason why we use just about any picture to be our avatar - some don't even need one. As for the choice of avatars, different tastes and ideas, even classes, determine the selection. No good, no bad. Just a picture.
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
30 Sep 12
Hi Jkct,
Thanks for the response, yesterday I have found that my avatar photo is not there and once again I have uploaded my avatar photo, then I got the idea to post a discussion about Avatar photo. In any site there is no restriction of using any thing as our avatar photos, this is our liberty to use any thing in the sites have a nice day.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
30 Sep 12
Hi friend, there is nothing wrong in sharing our real photo if it is necessary, otherwise it is individual wish to share their photo or not. I shared my real photo in some sites which requires it, apart from them i am using some flowers as my profile image. I am not interested in using other persons image in my profile, so i use flower as my image
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
30 Sep 12
HI Vidyaprakash,
Thanks for the response, but in other site you are sharing your photo and in this site also you have shared your photo previously. The present avatar photo also very good looking showing heart, I too do not wish to use celebrities or other persons photo as my avatar. But I am using other's photo is my avatar at present I could not change that photo, have a nice day.
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
29 Sep 12
I think some people are afraid to use avatar pictures of their own pictures. Some people they think of using the avatars of different characters like that of film. I think one reason is that most probably they put things they admire on the avatars.
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
30 Sep 12
Hi Ajithlal,
Thanks for the response, yes you are right why people fear to post their own photos as their avatars and they are hiding their where about that is their place,name,age and gender also just like that. But I never hide any thing except my avatar in the beginning I liked this avatar and used it and now I cannot change this avatar with my photo, have a nice day.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
30 Sep 12
I chose based on what I felt more comfortable with . I am also very private person , I also chose a picture that represent me well . Yes we all choose all sort of tings just show how unique we are lol I have not seen anyone with the same avatar so far .
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
30 Sep 12
Hi Silverfox,
Thanks for the response, yes you are right some people does not fear to show their real photo means their real picture their identity also. So we have think that they are free and frank people and we can make friendship with these persons easily, they does not hide any thing from us. So I like you and your avatar, have a nice day.
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
30 Sep 12
HI Tushavi,
Thanks for the response, I do not fear about misuse of my photo in the site. If it is lady some may fear to put their photo as avatar photo, still some lady's do not use their own photos for their avatars. I am seeing you since the beginning you are using the same avatar, this is good thing we can recognise you easily have a nice day.
@LetranKnight25 (33121)
• Philippines
30 Sep 12
Hello Yugasini, because in mylot, every one has the right to be anonymous no matter how sickening it maybe. back in the past, they were some users who would use your own personal photo as a way to scam others. that has been discuss before, and i have upload my own personal pics but didn't stay permanent. you have to understand that there's some people out there who can pretend to be you.
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
30 Sep 12
HI Letranknight,
Thanks for the response, I have not understand your statement. I think you are also in the site since 6 years or you have contributed more articles to this site, now a days I am somewhat actively participated in this site. I do not wish to change my present avatar, I stick with this avatar for ever in this site have a nice day.
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
29 Sep 12
Hi Yugasini
I always had my own photo as my avatar. Of course, I did go about changing it from time to time and mostly to reflect my mood. Last Chirstmas I was in a Snowman avatar. Then reverted back to me. Then a few days back it was Uncle Fester and today it is Casper.
I dont have any issues with showing my own face as my avatar. Just a change sometimes to keep things exciting.
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
30 Sep 12
Hi Thesids,
Thanks for the response, I have not changed my avatar till now. I do not wish to change my avatar from time to time, when I have joined I does not have my photo and I like this kid's photo so I kept it as my avatar. Now I have my photo but I do not wish to change my avatar because I am somewhat recognised by this avatar, have a nice day.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
17 Nov 12
hi,
for me i think they don't like to show the real them or there face here that is why they used different photos as there avatar,but for me i would love to put my real picture as my avatar so that the people who will be connected to me will see my real face.
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
30 Sep 12
Hi yugasini! I had my real picture when I started with myLot but I just removed it lately for personal reason. I decided to remove it first during the time I was on the training and I am planning to use my real picture after I have completed all my requirements.
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
30 Sep 12
Hi Aries,
Thanks for the response, I do not have personal picture when I started mylot 6 years bck, this present avatar photo is my ex staff son this boy cute looking so I kept it as my avatar. From that time I have not changed my avatar till now and I am using the same avatar picture in all my accounts of other sites, have a nice day.
@Aamrubhai (48)
•
29 Sep 12
I still confuse. How I make my photo as a avatar in Mylot profil.. Can you explain me please?
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
30 Sep 12
Hi Aamrubhai,
Thanks for the response, you have already posted a photo in your avatar is not this avatar photo is yours? Directly go to the "Preferences" on top of your mylot page and then upload your photo in the section there there is an option to upload your photo that is your avatar photos. Yesterday I have uploaded my avatar second time, have a nice day.
@Asylum (47893)
• Manchester, England
30 Sep 12
I would assume that most people simply do not think about it. It has never occurred to me to use my own photograph, but I would have no problem with my picture being available at Mylot.
It has been a long tradition for members of online sites to use abstract images or animations, sometimes based on their interests but mostly just something that they like. I have used quite a few different ones so far, but none have been a photograph of myself.