i had to choose different circle of friends

This happened to me with my so called friend that I had known years as well, in fact I use to go to school with her. I have nothing to do with that friend any more neither do I have any thing to do with people in her circle of friends, as those friends knew what was going on. I have been married 16 years and have four son with my husband and two daughters from my first marriage and if it was easy to pack me and the children up, I would be long gone, after all it took two of them to screw my marriage up. But I am not a mug, he wont ever be being intamate with me, after all they were the ones saying I was intimate. The good thing about it all is he wasted his money on flowers Friday for our 16th anniversary, so I treated him to an adult mag and tissues to give any one else of my friends a break, lol.This all happened in June and for all the people that she forgot to tell, like her husbands relations I made sure they knew.Can not think why she then deleted me on face book, ha ha.

Well good to hear about your new bunch of friends and your ability to differentiate about whom to trust and whom not. This ability cannot be developed by everyone and good that u have mastered it. I think in lives we need to take certain decisions in life that can change our lives forever and can help us change our outlook and behavior towards life and i am sure u will experience that thing. What say?

Look, it doesn't hurt to use punctuation from time to time. Like I'm using right now, see? And now for the answer. Dump your husband, dump him like there's no tomorrow. He cheated on you. Ok, enough said.

hi lisa, We really better be careful of choosing a friend there are lot of pretender and just waiting the right time to hurt us. happy mylotting

Hi lisa! Welcome to myLot! We should really be careful when choosing our friends. Personally, I am also very choosy when it comes to the issue of friendship. I am a very sweet person so people would assume that I am that kind that they could take advantage of easily. But I'm sure they can't because I have a lot of experience with my previous friends so even though I am not changing the way I deal with people, but they don't know I am always observing them. Let's be cheerful, friendly and easy to get along with but be wise enough to know who are real and who are not. Have a nice day!

In this world, we have to know whom should we trust or not. We never know what might happen.

Sorry to hear that. I had friends who try to take advantage of me. And I had friends who already done me wrong, and leave in financial disaster problem. In life, there were many such people existed, and we just have to be careful. I am not trying to tell you, before you make friends with anyone, you have to do a background check on that person, or gauge them from top to toe. You just can't fully trust anyone at the beginning, you have to know him/her and gradually to get to know his/her personality.

It must be really hard having all of that going on. Sometimes I don't understand why people who are not content with what they have need to involve people who are content with what they have. I can probably understand that they don't like what they have at the moment. But it's not okay to go preying on other people's partners. It's a good thing that there are people around you who let you know what's going on so that you're aware. That's one blessing. Even though there are people who are causing trouble, there are also people who actually care and have your best intentions at heart.

Did you take the words of your husband's boss without checking if these were true? However, if you really sensed something and if your husband affirmed what his boss said then you should not trust that friend anymore. Hope you can have more good friends in the future. True friends are hard to find.

Better safe than sorry...I am not sure you should believe\everthing \ you are told. but if it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck its most likely a duck... The best thing you can do is get yourself some new friends especially if you don't trust this woman....

all of us have Friends but v have to my other belive that i am good so make friend but dont share famliy matter with them bcoz lot of them dont under stand ur fellings they just make it fun i have lot of freinds but 1 or 2 r my good friend that we share things that we can't share to others have a nace day

hey what I have learn fro the life is not to trust anyone nomatter how close your friends are someway or ither they cheat upon. You should takecare before its too late, keep little distances, never involve your friends too much in your personal life and trust me consequences of such friends are always terrible who are very much interfearing in your personal life.

Great that you had now realized how important it is to chose friends wisely. They are a big influence in our lives. So we should be careful in having one as a friend.

That is awful. Sometimes the people closer to you are the ones that hurts you the most. It's important to choose your friends wisely. If you don't, you risk a lot; they can betray you and stuff. Good to hear that you decided to find new friends. Sometimes having too many friends can get you into more trouble. I mean you can't really trust people like that. You have to have boundaries and not put all your eggs in one basket. Good luck to you.