My brother doesn't come back

Sometimes we have to make our own path. My brother was kicked out for seeing a girl my mom didn't like behind her back. He's now been happily married to the girl for about 8 years. Sometimes you have to cut the strings.

It's important to keep in touch, even if he doesn't answer. Leave the door open. Many people make a change that in the end doesn't work out and you want him to be aware that no matter what happened he is family and he is loved. Blessings

hi wongchoiyee....sorry to heard that news about your brother.maybe your brother want to stand alone by himself not to depend in your families although i know he was treated well, mostly guys want to be independent and maybe your brothers want to tried to earned or worked money by himself....Have you just checked if he's safe and okay anyway...

Hi wong, so sorry to hear that...but I do think if you have the number you should definatly call him. communication is very important, at least you will find out first hand of what happened.. I hope you guys reach a happy/cordial understanding...family is very important..try hard to contact him... Good luck with this situtation.....

i think it sounds better , your mother will feel better after knowing/hearing from him, which is important.

Well it was pretty to hear about your brother's indifferent attitude towards your family and i am sure wherever he goes, he will never get people like u guys in his entire life. He should have realized by now that there are some other people who love and care for him so much and i am shocked that he is neglecting u and your mother, the lady who has taken immense pain to groom him. I think u should call him and make him understand and clear all the misunderstandings between u all. What say?

If your mind will be easier, do call him. But don`t expect miracles. But maybe you can talk it over with him and discover exactly what is wrong. Maybe you can help. How old is he?

yes choy you should call him. maybe something happened. maybe he just wanted to live on his own. its different to live with parents and to live on your own. about me im happy to live with my parents yet. im not responsible enough to live alone. also i dont have a job to even pay for a house.

Hello Friend, I have seen that boys have this habit of keeping things to themselves. I don't understand why they don't share their problems with their family members? Why don't they understand that how a mother or a sister feels when they leave home and don't even respond to their phone calls? How a father feels when his son leaves him and go away saying that he doesn't understand him? Communication is a way to bridge gaps and develop understanding. I think you should keep trying at your end to communicate with him, to make him speak his problem. Express him how much you both love him and care for him. Hope he will value your love and come back.

Really I am very sad to know that you have some issues with your brother which resulted to end up the communication for two months. I life each of the people people plays an important role and no one can be replaced with an other one. So it is the time to understand what is the value of each of them in our life. Mistakes or some issues are very common in life try to compromise it as soon as possible and I hope you will get him back

i don't know what had happen to your family and what problem are your family meet with, but just give sometimes to your brother. by the way, just find out the problem why your brother can't stand with your family? what had happen in the past? i think you have to find out the problem and solve it soon.