What if your bestfriend is having a secret affair with your lover?

I'm so sorry to know that this had happen to you but i'm glad that you're better now. As what they say if someone leaves then probably someone better will arrive. and i hope that you will. thanks

I haven't seen that discussion of yours, when did you post it? would you mind sending a link so that i can read it first? people think they can just do what they want for a simple lust of temporary joy. yeah, you can't do anything if they have some connection to each other, but that's just rude and am sorry you had to go through with that. he should have broke up with you and then chose her as to be fair

You are correct there,because it could also happen to me or to anyone including you,that love conquered yourself,yet even if you know that was for your best friend,you still can not afford to just leave it,because it could also hurt your feelings not pursuing your emotions. You are enjoying the wonders of love within yourself,yet you are just destroying your only friendship,who is like your brother.You are the affected person,so better solve your problem than leaving it up for yourself to support your friend.If you are in love you are going to do all you can just to win her heart,no matter what would be coming soon for your best friend as long as you are also happy,so let it happen no matter what may come.

Oh well, we can never really prevent those person who would rather hurt their own friend as long as they satisfy themselves. No reparation can be done if trust is ruined. happy mylotting.

resistance is sometimes hard especially if attraction is stronger. But if a friend really cares for you, they would never do this, but we need to accept the fact that sometimes they would forget the relationship as long as satisfaction is attained by them..what you say?

Totally, and who needs them right?

hi shm, i think that's true, but they should just inform you right, rather that doing some secret affair behind your back. Letting go is just one of the process of getting freedom, but the way that it should be done is the question. thanks.

wow, baby your kind if that's the case, if this will happen to me, no enough reason can be provided to erase the hurt or even maintain even a single, tiny strand of relationship. LOL, i'm not saying i experience it, but even imagining this provides me a lot of emotions actually. thanks

hi chiyosan, i don't think that being married of one is really a security nowadays, since even married person do engaged in this kind of situation, but since your single, why not enjoy it for the meantime. happy mylotting.

hello bingskee, second chance will never be an option for me, since i don't like recycled relationship, since i believe that if they did it to you once they can do it again, and i don't think that it would be worth the effort either. thanks

I agree with you Letranknight, I have this friend who has a relationship with a married guy, since i'm a friend, I've tried to talked to her regarding the pros and cons of this relationship, but unfortunately, my friend got angry with me and forget me as her friend and chose to keep her illegal relationship. but i'm not really frustrated since by that reaction of her, i came to know that she is really not that true on our friendship. Happy mylotting.

hi obe, i for one would never do this, cause trust once ruined is not easy to be reinstated, especially for someone who is dear to you. have a nice day.

hi toxic, forgiveness maybe given but it would take sometimes, but forgetting well never happen especially if it hurt so bad. And friends who can cheat on you is no friend at all. thanks

hi Sunglow, i didn't experience this either, and i'm glad, cause im not really sure on what will happen if this ever happen to me, but in case, i think i will not only distance myself but i will forget the friendship and the relationship. thanks