Blaming other people
By pogi253
@pogi253 (1596)
Philippines
October 1, 2012 8:17am CST
There are people who have this habit of pointing fingers on the misfortunes that they have in their lives. For example, when they lose something or late for something, they usually say that if it is not because of him or her, he would not lose it or he is better if only they did not do things that contribute to it. I think it is not right to have that kind of attitude because it will create gaps in relationships and it is not healthy for both parties as well. Do you know someone with that kind of attitude?
8 responses
@shm1975 (38)
•
2 Oct 12
I have a habit ti encourage other ,Because when i saw some body done a mistake,i just place my self & think "what i do if i am in same place in same situation.then i try found the main problem to help that person.Criticized other is very easy , give your help towards him easier than that
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@natliegleb (5175)
• India
2 Oct 12
i hate to do that since in most cases it causes a lot of and plenty of side effects,trouble only for us,i would just ignore not blame them ,because no one in this world are ready to accept their mistakes
@celticeagle (165954)
• Boise, Idaho
1 Oct 12
Yes, some people do this don't they? They will never learn if they don't take the responsibility for their own actions. And some just have an attitude. It can creat gaps in relationships and bad feelings for being blamed. I have known some people like this but can't think of anyone right now.
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@BigMoney25 (1286)
• Philippines
1 Oct 12
Blaming really is not healthy. Some people tend to do it, I see it as a sign of weakness I really do. Nothing can be solved out of blaming others, why not just solve the problem instead of wasting time blaming other people it just don't make sense to me, at all.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
1 Oct 12
Hi friend, most of the people finding various reasons for their faults. We are the responsibility for our activities, we don't have any rights to blame others for our mistakes
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@baby000 (29)
• United States
1 Oct 12
I know many people like that. I think it's sad when people fail to take responsibility for their failures and misfortunes. I mean the best thing to do is realize that you screwed up instead of saying x or y made me do it you know. However, sometimes, other people do cause things to happen to you but, that's not too often. It can be really irritating when people blame you for something that is definitely not your fault. I think when people blame others they are dealing with their own issues.
If you're a rational person you'll realize you have some control over your actions and the things that happen to you. Blaming won't solve anything. In fact, when you take responsibility for some of the outcomes in your life, you're somehow the bigger person in that case.
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@bokal2703 (802)
• Philippines
1 Oct 12
I know someone with that attitude and honestly, it is frustrating whenever he acts that way. I do not want to blame him, because maybe it is his defense mechanism so he will not feel bad about himself. However it affects other people and sometimes may hurt them too, so if only he will just be more optimistic about things and see those misfortunes and failures that he encounters as things that will hone his character and make him stronger, things will go fine on his way.
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@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
18 Nov 12
hi,
yes it is true,people will blame other people because they are late and i am one of them too,though i know in my self that its all my fault,but still have times that i still blamed the driver or the road or even the vehicle because i am already late.