I don't believe that first love never dies.
By bembzee
@bembzee (768)
Philippines
October 1, 2012 7:47pm CST
I love reading pocket books and i felt i was always in love. In my point of view i believe i fully understand what love is. I always argue with my friends and classmates when they said that first love never dies. I did not agree with that idea, never. Unless of course if you had met the right one for you in your early age. But i guess that's just rare circumstances. There can only be one great love in your lifetime. And i guess many had misinterpret their feelings from infatuation and crush. They just love the idea of being in love. But on the contrary, teenagers believe otherwise.
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@littlejamie (11)
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3 Oct 12
I and my BF is first love.we has been love for four years.I think this is ture love.We are care about each other,seldom quarrel , I also sincerely hope that this love can forever?As for can forever,maby only time will tell.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
2 Oct 12
Perhaps it depends on what you personally see as your first love? I also don't believe first love (if people mean the first person you fall in love with as a teenager) would not die. I can hardly remember that person. He did surely not leave a great impression on me after all these years plus I can't even remember if I was that crazy about him or what is his name. I met many people in my life incl. men, moved many times, still don't know if I really found that first love or the love of my life. Since I have doubts about that I think I did not.
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
2 Oct 12
It is the strongest feeling ever, because we never loved before, it could be a combination of love, lust, admiration and more so we think it will last forever. All this time I just heard about 2 couples that stayed with their first love and first boyfriend, actually 3 and 1 of them are not happy at all, the others are meant to be.
@Dominique25 (9464)
• United States
2 Oct 12
I think that for most people it is hard to forget your first love. But then if you are able to get back with that person after a time you just start to understand how life really is and that love can be the same whether it's with your first love or not. It all depends on the individuals in the relationship too.
@bembzee (768)
• Philippines
2 Oct 12
I think you had a point Dominique. Many people cannot forget their first love because they try to believe that they have the right love at the wrong time or because they are really meant for each other. Its really up to the person involved. They acted to the situation the way they like because of the influenced of their environment, family, and friends.
@Angelpink (4034)
• Philippines
2 Oct 12
I guess it is not really first love , it might be other thing. Usually when this happen in a very early age , and often it is mistaken as Love . I guess it is not really love that existed during early life but just an infatuation because during this stage we really don't know what is real love , all we thought that what we feel is already love. True love can be found not in early age but in age when we have already huge experienced of life. I don't know if you will agree with me , but this what i have observed in my real life experienced.
@baby000 (29)
• United States
2 Oct 12
I agree in that many people confuse lust for love which is wrong because true love is not something that happens overnight. It really takes a lot of time to develop. Like you said, people do confuse infatuation with love which is wrong.
When you find true love, you'll know it and there's no rushing. When you find it you won't have any doubt in your mind at all.
