Friend or stranger to be lover

Philippines
October 2, 2012 6:32am CST
Friend or stranger?what do you prefer to become lover?a friend that knOws you from the start or stranger that you doNt knOw buT cAugHt your heart?buT if your friendship falls to a romatic relationship and end up nOthing would your friendship stay or also end?And you start froM stranger would it last til end?
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6 responses
@srisahara (4508)
• Indonesia
23 Oct 15
I think it is difficult to answer. But I think no one will love with stranger. Yes, he/she maybe being stranger at first but eventually he/she could be friends after recognizing who he/she....
@GemmaR (8517)
2 Oct 12
I think it very much depends on what the two of you are like as people. One of the good things about being with someone who you have been friends with for some time is the fact that you already know each other so well that you wouldn't have to spend so much time dating and could be together properly. However, if the two of you split up then if you were friends before then this can have a negative impact on your friendship and your other friends, whereas at least if they were strangers you wouldn't be hurting anyone if you split up.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
2 Oct 12
For me, I've had two serious relationships in my life and with both of the serious relationships that I've had in my life, they started out with the man that I dated being a stranger to me. Well, one of those relationships did come to an end, but it resulted in one of the best friends that I have in my life. I think that the reason that this is the case is because of the fact that he and I also developed a great friendship during the fourteen months that we were together.
@Paper_Doll (2373)
• Philippines
2 Oct 12
Whether it is a friend or a stranger, I don't just give my heart to any guy without passing the courtship period although I've noticed that this is hardly observed nowadays. Relationships are being fast-tracked and viewed as disposables. In my opinion, having a friend as your lover has both its advantages and disadvantages. One of the advantage is that in some ways, you already know each other and more likely, you share the same interests and hobbies. You already have a foundation as lovers should also be friends as well.
@kokomo (1867)
• Philippines
2 Oct 12
I think love starts with friendship.I know it feels awkward for others because they think that if their friend will become their lover, they will felt ashamed for some of their life's history already knew by their friends. If I would choose, what should be my lover I think a stranger who will become my friend because I know that if friendship comes first between us then we will get to know each other first, at least from the start we already know what kind of person he or she is.
• Greece
2 Oct 12
well sometimes you will have to risk.For personal experience i had friendship with a guy and after some months he confess that he liked me and offer me a relationship.To tell you the truth as i couldnt see him as a lover i started something which ended very quickly and now we are not friends.Its a difficult situation.