when i go out i always see a lady wearing the same clothes
By lisasarah123
@lisasarah123 (93)
October 2, 2012 3:25pm CST
when i go out i always see this lady walk past my friends house every day wearing the same clothes for months and its always red jeans black top i was wondering weather she washes them surely they would ok stuck to her skin if you saw her children then you would understand all the family need a good wash please tell me why this is
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@JohnRok1 (2051)
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11 Oct 12
Lisa Sarah, I'm sorry you have a niece you have reason to be ashamed of (With you being 32 and her having 4 children, you can't be a friendship "auntie", it's got to be blood), but it's happened to far better people than us - I know one case in point, only difference being, it's a nephew not a niece. As is often said, you can choose your friends, but you can't choose your relatives. We had our black goat (Can't call him a sheep) in the family a couple of generations back.
@Dianax3 (48)
• United States
2 Oct 12
well some people just dont have good hygiene but others also are poor and cant afford clothes i wouldnt be too harsh to judge you dont know her reasons behind this maybe she has ashbergers lol how ever you spell it they like to where the same outfit over and over but have lots of shirts just that it is the same shirt becuase they dont like alot of change.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
10 Oct 12
you talk like 16 hours a week is great wage s b ut trust me its not a lot of money specially with four kids.either help her and offer some clothes or do not worr y abouyt her.
@trisha27 (3494)
• United States
2 Oct 12
I figure that maybe they are poor and can not afford other clothing. That is really a sad thing to hear though. If I were her neighbor I would speak to her and maybe later on down the line learn of her situation and possibly donate some of my clothes to her, but not try to embarass her as well. She probably does wash her clothes or that may be her favorite clothing to wear. You never know the situation. She could also just be lazy and not want to switch her clothes. You never know.
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@lisasarah123 (93)
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8 Oct 12
if this lady was like that then her poor children would be ill how could anyone not bath or wash its pure filth
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@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
2 Oct 12
If you want to know you can ask her. She is the only one who can tell you what her reason is for wearing the same clothes. BTW there are also plenty of people who have 2 or more exactly the same pair of trousers, shirts etc since they like it. There are also people who are not able to buy a lot of clothes. So they wear it for some days, wash it and put it on again.
My uncle had a friend who only had 1 jean (or perhaps 2?). He was wearing it plus shirt for 1 week (smelling terrible btw) and at Saturday he took a bath, washed his clothes and as soon as they were dry again he put them on again. It was not that he was poor. Actually he had a high income and was working for Philips at the new inventions department. It was more that he did not feel the need to spend money on more clothes as he needed.
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@lisasarah123 (93)
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2 Oct 12
i know there is people out there like that but she can do it cause she works and her children look like they need a good bath they are so dirty
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@surekharathi (14146)
• India
17 Oct 12
Hheeheh....wakeupkitty my friend I agree with you he should ask her. Because how we can know the reason behind it. My husband has 12 jeans he like cloths too much more than me hahahh.... How lucky jeans at least it can touch the body but I am unlucky always annoy on me dont touch me.
@Lisas Even the person are lazy but they changed the dress not wear daily one dress.
@lisasarah123 (93)
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2 Oct 12
she works 16 hours a week and has four children she has money too she is just being lazy
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@natnickeep (2336)
• United States
3 Oct 12
She may very well be homeless or just unable to afford other clothing. It would be nice to sit out a box of your old unworn clothing, write free clothes on it and maybe do a good deed. It might hurt her feelings to ask her, or offer them to her directly. Not everyone is okay with people helping them.
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@joystick (1675)
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24 Oct 12
Sounds like some one I know and they have money, as they are always using money for things that they do not want or need and never spend it to clothe their children as they think tattoos and other things that they want are more important.
Sad life, but there are a few people that are like that and they do not really seem to care about all the important things in life that they should do or need.
@lisasarah123 (93)
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27 Oct 12
this person who i am talking about has now brought a red car that sits up her drive i dont know how she can afford that as she aint even got a drivers lience also she most proberly wont tax it or insure it