husband and wife
By leeandrew
@leeandrew (1225)
Philippines
October 2, 2012 8:21pm CST
I went somewhere yesterday and left hubby with our one year old daughter. Well, as a full time mom (which I don't mind at all co's I'm enjoying it to the max) needed some self time and having this ladies activity at our church is one way of my me time co's I travel to church and back home alone, no hubby to assist me and no baby to take care to.
Anyhow, hubby and I agreed that he would take me to the bus station to lessen fare expenses and he would also get me from there to bring me home. But something weird happen last night and hubby was not able to get me. He said he was waiting for my reply which in my part I've been texting him the moment I left the church, get on the bus and while I was on the bus. I've been waiting for a reply all those times but there's none.
Until I finally get off the bus, texted him again and again telling him I already waiting for him. I've waited, felt wasted, got mad, hired a trike to bring me home. Then when I arrived I found hubby ready to leave to get me. Ooh.. the feeling of madness... it's horrible!
We fought with words and each tries to explain his/her side, I just can't help but cried this morning for being unreasonable (well.. not just me but hubby as well). Oh if we could only shun arguments away. And if only men would use their reasoning in such a loving way not in a winning way.
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4 responses
@tyleremy (170)
• China
23 Feb 13
Hi there!
What confused me there is why don't call him instead?There was absolutely no need to argue at all if you two found it was a problem of phone connection.I have seen this situation before that a couple try to let the other one understand, but it turns out no one is being understanding.
@leeandrew (1225)
• Philippines
8 Mar 13
Hubby will come home no matter what happen, so instead of calling him I just wait for him instead.
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. I love my husband very much @leeandrew (1225)
• Philippines
8 Mar 13
That's good to know. I love my hubby too and I know he does love me too. Of course marital arguments and issues won't go but the good is... it's still us the end of the day.
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@leeandrew (1225)
• Philippines
9 Mar 13
Yeah! They may not say it in words but as a wife you could tell that they cares. I love my hubby and could not imagine without him in my life :).
@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
11 Mar 13
Thanks for sharing, lol that is a sweet fight between couples, i was married in 1966, we do fight too, it adds flavor to life.
Blessings.
@carloscourtney (17)
• United States
3 Oct 12
i understand your pain! my girl and i have had similar situations. you just have to remember that you cant always rely 100% on your cell phone since a lot of times there are problems with cell phone service. Some times i receive text/missed calls 30 minutes to an hour late on occasion. It is best to just specify exact times when it comes to getting picked up from a location etc.
@leeandrew (1225)
• Philippines
3 Oct 12
Hi. thanks for the comments. Yeah I know. hubby just told me and explained to me what might just happen why he did not receive my text. It's just being there waiting is really a horrible feeling with all these people who waits were all gone and I was left behind again and again is just hard to bare. (hahaha). Well, at least I can laugh now. At least hubby and I are now in good terms.
I actually just wished I have a load for calls and not just for text last night. Probably last night was not just a goo night for me specially because it was raining hard.
It's actually hard to tell about the pick up time when I'm not sure how bad the traffic is. :(
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