I am isolated by my roommates
By saberblue
@saberblue (33)
China
October 3, 2012 11:20am CST
My life in the college campus has began.there are six people in our small dormintory which I always didn't stay long.I went out early while the others were still sleeping.they almost didn't see in a whole day. We had kept a near relationship during the military training however, when we got back to school,without lots of time together ,I seemed to be isolated.what a tragedy !I can't find sth interesting to talk with them and they don't want to chat with me forwardly which makes me sad.some people think that I am too formal and it's true that when people are joking, I have to use some time to understand it.not so quick in mind with jokes.what bothers me most is that I am willing to make friends with them,and they seems to refuse my invitation without saying a single word.
Where I am is in a samll society and I meet the problem on the way to mature.how should I do?
1 response
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
3 Oct 12
Well i can understand your situation. New environment is always panicky in nature and it is quite normal to be in your situation at first.
I would like u to first understand the mentality of the students, the teachers and the environment as a whole. Then try to mold yourself into the existing environment but that does not mean changing yourself completely. try to socialize and talk to others in a friendly manner by asking them about their country, schooling, etc. This is the way u can make friends with others and avoid being isolated by them.
What say?
@saberblue (33)
• China
4 Oct 12
I tried to talk to them and always be warm-hearted. I just can't understand how they can be in such reaction .they can just point it out where I didn't do well .but they just stay silent.
