it hard to find someone

October 4, 2012 5:54am CST
why is it so hard to find someone to love online, have tried dating site, the people i see there are scam, is there no a real dating site where someone can found a truthful and reliable someone. have been searching at least for one dating site where i can meet real people and chat real chat, can anyone help me about this?
7 responses
@rameshchow (4426)
• India
19 Oct 12
nothing is there in sites . it depends no us . first you have to be smart. then you can get a lot.
@khhhaaaat (112)
• Philippines
11 Oct 12
It is hard mainly because almost everyone on those dating sites are a LIE. There are lost of people putting on a facade and trying to be somebody else in order to scam other people, especially girls for them to give their trust. Don't look Online for love. Look for it in the real world. or better yet, Let love find you. If the love is to fast to find, then it will also be too fast to slip away.
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
11 Oct 12
It is possible to find love online. I know that from experience, because I have met my husband online and we have been married for 3 years, but it can be difficult to find the right person online. You might have to try more than one site and you might have to meet several people before you find the right person. Sometimes people are very different when you met them in real life. I have tried that a couple of times. We got along really well online, but when we met in person things didn't work out at all. It is not impossible to find love online, and there are many success stories, but it might not happen straight away, so you have to be prepared to keep on trying. I am not able to recommend a dating site because I only know the local sites from my country, but there are lots of different dating sites to choose from and I would recommend joining more than one site.
• India
4 Oct 12
What are you trying for? just don't believe such sites. They all are scam and having fun by fooling people. Try to have a real person that you can love otherwise wait for the time when you will meet your love
• Philippines
7 Oct 12
Love comes when you less expect it.
• India
4 Oct 12
Did you ever asked yourself that there are many known person around you. Maybe your friends, neighbor, collegue from office etc. Then why we search for a partner at dating site.? How can you believe that the person whom you are talking is real.? Love comes with friendship and friendship comes from friend. So love someone who understands you and you can trust that person.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
4 Oct 12
You find it hard to love someone online? I assume this is a slip of the finger? Online you can love everybody, loving someone in real life is hard. Perhaps you should ask yourself first what you want and what you have to offer!