Effects of Eye Contacts..
@barood4money (376)
India
October 5, 2012 2:07am CST
The eyes are the window to the soul. When you look at someone, you are saying that you are willing to see and connect with them, and you are willing to be seen yourself. You have only to watch new lovers in a restaurant gazing across the table into each other's eyes to know how powerful eye contact can be.
But how much eye contact is too much /too little/the right amount? Research shows that a constant stare makes people uncomfortable. However, a short gaze may mean that the person is shy, insecure, or insincere. The most effective eye contact is where you glance, linger, look away, then reconnect -- holding each other's gaze for at least 60 percent of the total time you are together.
Once you've made eye contact, longer looks usually work. What do you think.?
2 responses
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
1 Nov 12
To use an eye contact is very important to us. When we talk to someone, we use eye contacts. At a different situation, we may use a different eye contact with the person we are talking to. An eye contact works if is is well understood.
@keichan1412 (247)
• United States
5 Oct 12
I hate strangers who looked at me carefully. I don't know if they are criticizing me or what. When I made eye contacts with them, they look the other way. Tsktsk.. It is powerful. :)
