he's like a dream to me

Romania
October 5, 2012 1:13pm CST
I've been in love with him for over a year and now he's finally mine. I just can't believe it and I'm afraid that if I get too happy this beautiful dream is going to end. when he asked me if I wanted us to try to have a relationship is was like whatt? he's so sweet and he's so dear to me. I don't care if I get hurt...he's worth the risk.
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@sona22 (1430)
• India
5 Oct 12
Thanks for the relation. To have own partner is a dream to us and fulfilling the dream is the start of a new dream not end of the dream.
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• Romania
5 Oct 12
it's not that I wanted any partner. I could have had another man. but no one was like him....I tried relationships with others but he was the only one who was present in my mind...this is why i couldn't get atached to any of them
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@dainy1313 (2370)
• Leon, Mexico
5 Oct 12
Hello swissheart, I´m so happy for you! Being inlove is a very nice feeling. You want to give the best of you to your soulmate. It is a stage that lets you discover yourself and your beloved, of course. I wish you a happy way, try to avoid negative feelings. And always encourage the dialogue that helps have a healthy relationship. Blessings for both of you lol swissheart... dainy
@dainy1313 (2370)
• Leon, Mexico
6 Oct 12
How tender is he somebody told me that when we talk about babies is because there is true love in there! I`m glad for you! As you mentioned that you want to become best friends first of all, let me tell you that I married my best friend! This really works! Because you must trust one another, and be loyal to each other. You must feel confident together. My husband and I`ll be 15 years of married this dec, we have three children, almost teens, and today we are leaving on vacations, just he and I, alone!! This is our first time since our honeymoon that we`ll be out together alone, again. Blessings swissheart... dainy
• Romania
6 Oct 12
thank you. I told him that first of all I want us to be best friends and talk about anything. we;ve had this special relationship in which we would understand each other and I don't want things to change now as we are together. anyway I hope things turn out ok.he's already talking about how our baby is going to be aldo we only have 6 days since we've been in a relationship
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@CJay77 (4438)
• Australia
6 Oct 12
I am so happy for you Miss Swissheart and I wish you all the best. I think we all get afraid to loose someone we dearly loved at least at one stage in our life, but like you have said aboved, he's worth the risk and, like I said I wish ou all the best. At the moment enjoy and embrace the happiness that you both feeling/sharing, you'll never know, he may be the right one for you.
• Romania
6 Oct 12
I know you're right but it's also a long distance relationship and it feel so hard to know he's so far away. his ex is from there and I'm afraid he might dump me for her
@GemmaR (8517)
6 Oct 12
It is good that you have managed to find somebody who you feel so strongly about, and I think that you need to try and stop worrying about losing him. If you are constantly worrying in this way, then the only thing that is going to happen is that you are going to put more pressure on your relationship and it might then end for that reason. You should just be happy that you've found a person that you're good with, and who you love, and stop worrying about what might happen if things go wrong; because there is every chance that they won't go wrong at all.
• Romania
6 Oct 12
yes but I;m afraid he doesn't love me back as much as i love him. plus there are many other girls who want him and this is why I'm afraid he's going to leave me or something
• Philippines
5 Oct 12
I had feel the same thing before. And I'm also afraid that time that I think that I will just get hurt in the end. But now, I have nothing to worry... Because I have my faith and trust on him that I'll never get hurt and he will not do anything that can hurt me. :)
• Romania
5 Oct 12
I try to thrust him too...that he's not going to cheat on me or hurt me in another why. but I don't know why I'm so scared of the idea that he;s going to leave me or something. first of all he's like my best friend. he's pretty much all I want in a man. and it's not because he looks good. he has that special something that makes me smile whenever I think of him.
@kokomo (1867)
• Philippines
6 Oct 12
You must be lucky swissheart.I had also a dream guy but unluckily he's not mine.He was already a family man now. I dream t and wished that someday he could be my guy but it did not happened though this time it is not a big deal already.My advice is you should just enjoy your relationship now being together. Do not bother for anything else.Do what makes him happy for him also to love you even more.
• Romania
6 Oct 12
I don't know how lucky I am because as I said I'm scared he might leave me. maybe I'm getting all paranoid but there are dozen of other girls who want him and I'm scared he'll leave me