How would you know that you are in love?
By xuy2xfreak88
@xuy2xfreak88 (182)
October 6, 2012 12:35pm CST
I am having a hard time right now about my boyfriend. I don't know if i still love him...but if i don't see him... I started to miss him, but when he is there, i get angry or not in the mood.
Am I in love with him or what? confused...
Does anybody have a similar situation? or anybody can give advice or something? I'm stuck!...
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6 responses
@ajlasent (536)
• Philippines
6 Oct 12
maybe you can try to spend some more time with him.. i wonder why you get to a point that you're not in the mood though. .
@xuy2xfreak88 (182)
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10 Oct 12
I think so too... but we're too busy to our work. Maybe I'll find time to spend time with him... :)
I'm kinda moody sometimes.. I don't know why... its like I'm born to be moody.. haha
@xuy2xfreak88 (182)
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17 Oct 12
haha thanks! I really want to enjoy my life... no worries or something... hmmmm
@helenworry (71)
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10 Oct 12
I think you need time to distingush whether you still love her or not. Time can help you know the voice in your heart.Don't be confused ,just learn to smile.I hope you can be happy everyday.
@xuy2xfreak88 (182)
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10 Oct 12
I hope so.... its like I'm living with demons... I always feel the negative vibes... hmmmmm that's why I keep on pouting... I think that's the exact word to describe.. "pounting" ..
It's really hard to change... but still trying.....
@courtknee525 (3742)
• United States
8 Oct 12
If you have to question yourself on whether or not you still love him, then you may not truly love him. You may like the idea of being in a relationship and when you're apart that may be why you start to miss him. But if all you do when you're with him is get angry, then you should probably think things over. I don't know what your relationship is like with him, I'm just going off my own experience with my boyfriend. There is no doubt in my mind that I love him and want to be with him forever. Yes we do occasionally get mad at each other and have little arguments, but I never forget or question my feelings for him.
Think things over and maybe take a break from him for a little while and see what happens. I hope you can figure things out.
@xuy2xfreak88 (182)
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10 Oct 12
I think I'm desperate to be in a relationship... I just want somebody who will love me, Is it wrong? being desperate? hmmmmmmm
If I will ask him for a break/cool off, he'll not going to agree with it... He really loves me that much... and i can't hurt him...
@soorajsrs7srs (636)
• India
6 Oct 12
don't worry dear xuy2xfreak88, actually almost 99% couples are feeling the same problem as u said .just try to understand him, avoid the matter which gives angry to you. i too felt so
@xuy2xfreak88 (182)
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10 Oct 12
I'm trying to understand him, but for now... i don't know.. hmmmmm but, I'll give time to work out things between us...:)
@xuy2xfreak88 (182)
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10 Oct 12
Yeah! its up to me, But I'm having a hard time deciding.. I'm afraid that I might regret if I leave him...
Anyways, thanks!
@Shannonbing (7)
• China
7 Oct 12
I think there are different periods of love we have to experience.I am sure nearlly 70% of couples have such problems like you. You need to spend more time to find out what he attracts you most and what you care most. Only you know these answers, can you make your heart clear. Anyway, love is not only beautiful, but also difficult. We should pay more time and attention to it. And i believe you will learn many thing from these problems.
@xuy2xfreak88 (182)
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10 Oct 12
I agree, Love is difficult... too difficult to determine if you love him or just an admiration... My friends told me that we need to spend more time to each other but I'm too busy... hmmmmm
