Younger or older
@tinetine161992 (431)
Philippines
October 7, 2012 8:03am CST
Younger or older? In relationship who you want to be with? Someone whom younger or older than you? Younger? Wild, you and free? Or older? Mature and more serious?
10 responses
@barood4money (376)
• India
8 Oct 12
It does'nt matter you are younger or older. In relationship it matters that how much you are serious with the relation. Not all younger are wild and free. And not all older are mature and serious. It totally depends on your thinking and situation. Like younger are always serious at exam or after doing mistake. And older are always wild and free at the time of party.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
8 Oct 12
If boy is older than the girl then the girl will respect him. minimum age difference should be 3 to 5 years in my view.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
8 Oct 12
They are stray cases. We cannot equate ourselves with Abhishek or Sachin. They are a separate class. having expertise and also a lot of money.
In the western countries they do not marry at all. They stay together as if staying in a temporary place -- then they separate. Just now i read a discussions girl friend boy friend -- boy friend gets another girl friend and wants first girl friend to go out of the residence. What is this? very bad.
Do not copy for such thing globalisation? In advanced countries single mothers get pension/compensation. So more single mothers are created.
@barood4money (376)
• India
8 Oct 12
I don't think so.. Doesn't Aishwarya respect Abhishek Bacchan.? Doesn't Anjali respect Sachin Tendulkar. There are many example like this. In some cases girls are older for 7-8 yrs. Still they are leading a happy marital life.
@lynnes75 (443)
• Malaysia
7 Oct 12
Someone my age or a little bit older ;) But a younger guy who is also mature and reliable is fine too. His personality is his own, but his character means more to me than his age, ultimately. Still, I would prefer not to be with a guy who is over ten years younger or older.
@tinetine161992 (431)
• Philippines
9 Oct 12
I agree with you. And its not maybe the age as long as you both posses the same feeling.
@simonelee (2715)
• China
8 Oct 12
Not a bit older than me. I like the mature ones but it doesn't mean all mature people are older. What is important is we jive with each other and definitely not afraid of new ideas and a bit thrill in life.
@tessa9 (1085)
• Philippines
8 Oct 12
I am actually with both. I am OK to date a guy who is at most three years younger than me. I am also willing to date someone who is at most five years older than me. I don't see my self dating someone who is five years older than me at the moment. I am pretty young and I think it will be hard on the relationship, our age difference.
@tinetine161992 (431)
• Philippines
9 Oct 12
yeah its true its hard to be someone in your age. Kinda boring you share the same ideas or like. Its more exciting to have new thing in your eyes.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
8 Oct 12
For years it has been a practice that men should be older than women when they get married. it is because men get older quickly and in order to support the family the lady if she is younger she can take care. my suggestion is the girl should 3/5 years younger than boy.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
8 Oct 12
barood
all wants to stay happy temporarily. no commitment. no dedication. no values. staying together like........ and then getting separated. Indian culture is not so.
In many countries people do not marry and live as a business partner for the time being and then get separated. think. think.
However case to case it may vary. If you have identified an older lady as your partner--then it is fine -- find out her likes dislikes, status, education etc., if it matches and each is willing to compromise then fine.
@barood4money (376)
• India
8 Oct 12
It happens only in India and surrounding countries. But globally, the time has changed. Nobody cares about this. All wants to stay happy..
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
7 Oct 12
In a relationship you want to be with someone who loves you, is attentive, cherish you, who is a good friend as well. It's not about being older or younger, richer, poorer, about culture, religion, the colour of the skin. If you think that way you don't know what love is plus you will never have a good relationship.
@tinetine161992 (431)
• Philippines
8 Oct 12
Love doesn't require anything. As long you two are in love and has mutual feelings.
@GemmaR (8517)
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8 Oct 12
I don't think that you can really say whether you want someone a specific age, because you don't tend to ask how old they are when you first meet them and they could easily act either old or younger than they are. I like men who are older than me at the moment because I like the thought that they could take care of me. However, when I am older then I will probably prefer men who are a little younger than me for the same reason. So you really can't generalise all of the time, you should just be with who it feels right to be with at the time.
@prospectboy (754)
• United States
16 Oct 12
I would prefer someone around the same age as me. However, it really doesn't matter too much to me. I'm more concerned with where a person's head and mind is, rather than what their age is. There are some younger people that are very mature for their age, and then there are older people that are immature. It just depends on the individual.
@tinetine161992 (431)
• Philippines
9 Oct 12
older lover are more serious and experienced compare to the younger one.
@Shannonbing (7)
• China
7 Oct 12
I would like to be choose older one. actually, my boyfriend is older than me. He knows more than me and teach me what i need to know. What's more, he also care more about what i need than what he needs. I think it is one of the most important reasons for countless girls that choosing older.
@tinetine161992 (431)
• Philippines
8 Oct 12
i agree they are more mature and experienced. They more know the do's and dont's.
