Is trusting to our parents and partner is dangerus?
@kaileshturkar (38)
India
October 7, 2012 6:21pm CST
Hi,
Recently I got married and I trust my parents and my life partner too. But is it dangerous to my life because I love both of them and don't want to loose there faith on me. However because of her parents now there are lots of misunderstanding between us, and my wife wont trust me and my family anymore. Her parents were always against to my parents previously she was supporting me and my parents because she knows the truth about all things and now she is not interested to listen any truth now she is telling me that we were lying to her. I am not able to understand what to do now?
2 responses
@GemmaR (8517)
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8 Oct 12
I don't think that we should trust anybody who has not earned that trust in the past. However, I think that there are a lot of people who don't trust others because of the way that they have been treated in the past, and I think that is a little bit sad in a way. When I am with a new partner I will always trust them with everything until they give me reason to believe that I shouldn't. My parents have also never broken my trust for my entire life so I know that they are always going to be people who will be there for me when I need them.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
8 Oct 12
kailesh
It is because girls get married after 24 years. they live in their parent's house this many years and they form expectations. In the marriages both sides tell exaggerated things about boy and girl or properties. that causes misunderstanding. Money alone is not life. Frank understanding is required.
With this type of girl you cannot be close to parents. choose either parents or the girl. sorry.
