Kids and Healthy foods

@rs1982 (99)
United States
October 8, 2012 2:33pm CST
What if you want your toddler to eat healthy but he/she wants it otherwise? You insist on cooking asparagus, broccoli, baked potato while the toddler asks for bread/cheese/noodles or spaghetti...what do you do?
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@ajlasent (536)
• Philippines
8 Oct 12
Have you tried preparing meat and vegetable loafs? :) They're a great way to incorporate vegetables in a way children would eat them... Also, preparing sandwiches with greens and some french fries on the sides can be a great way to introduce new flavors. Try eating with the child so he or she will see how you enjoy the food. :D Good luck!
@rs1982 (99)
• United States
8 Oct 12
sorry, forgot to mention that its a vegetarian only family...eggs are ok but the kid doesn't like eggs.. :) sandwiches are fine but the mom doesn't want to give too much bread as she thinks it has more carbohydrates than protein..
@ajlasent (536)
• Philippines
9 Oct 12
oh, I see... Here we have those mushroom burgers which vegetarians love... :) Also I once saw a recipe featuring a vegetable loaf or something, like a meatloaf but has all vegetables instead.. Instead of using meat, different mushrooms were substituted... it had carrots, peas, corn.... I forgot but it looked great. I'll try to find it and post here when I do... :) Is butter alright too?
@rs1982 (99)
• United States
9 Oct 12
Hey thanks ajlasent! Yes, she does make blackbean burgers. The kid isn't a fan of vegetables. It is funny to see him pick out the veggies from the pizza and eat the bread and cheese part of it. I do make a pilaf kinda thing and when I met them last, I made it and the kid relished it. I guess instead of meat, one can use potato, bread or any such agent to make the pie or a loaf..butter is fine..but I think she prefers low fat cheese. I didn't remember seeing butter in the house. :) As for me, if I had a kid, I would feel her or him everything. That will make them less fussy and give me more options too :) that is what my mum did for me.
@flowerchilde (12529)
• United States
11 Oct 12
Finally they have come out with some less expensive whole wheat breads, and they make whole grain noodles (instead of the gross tasting whole wheat noodles!) I found when my kids were little that they would eat pretty much what they saw me eat, which was oatmeal, whole wheat bread/toast, potatoes with the peelings and the challenging part, vegetables! My son used to love eating broccolli as a finger food! I thought that was great. Some kids like peas if you let 'em play with the peas a little. I always gave my kids cheerios on their high chair tray because they are made out of oats, which is a whole grain.. there's other cereals too that have oats listed first on the ingredient list.. You probably know that.. I always thought applesauce was good.. But that wasn't what you asked! And fruit is so expensive! But that's how I got my kids to eat healthy.. fruit.. then bread.. Everybody says bread (whole grain) isn't good for you, but it's a mainstay of the bible so I'm not agreeing with that ideas.. I could tell you about my grandkids' eating habits.. Of course that's when it gets really tricky when the children are a little older.. I don't want to frighten you! All I can say is don't get talked into buying things like frozen chicken nuggets and the like! and lots of desserts.. Are you a creative cook? If you like to cook you can make yummy and healthy and fun foods!
@rs1982 (99)
• United States
12 Oct 12
Wow, I really like your idea of making kids eat what you eat. That is what I would do for my own kid. Sadly, this is my nephew and there's nothing much I can say there..He loves my food tho..and eats out of my plate whenever v visit each other. I tell stories, blend veggie purees and make a curry of it..he likes such stuff...hence, he looks well fed during that week :) I guess we got to make them eat food with interest rather than compulsion. I like the cheerios idea too..that is what most people in the gym say too. Even bread isn't bad..I mean, come on, kids are 10000 times more active than we are..they can eat all kinds of stuff..so long as it isn't too much saturated fat..
@kaka135 (14934)
• Malaysia
11 Oct 12
Have you tried "decorating" the food for your toddler? I have seen some articles to decorate the food for kids, and it makes the toddler like the food, as it's so pretty and cute. I have done once with my son, as he saw a book with a picture of having the tomato and egg as a mushroom or boat, he asked me to make one for him. I just prepared the food, and make the mushroom or boat together with my son. But, my son likes to eat those food, so I don't know whether this really helps. Perhaps changing the style of cooking may help too?
@GemmaR (8517)
9 Oct 12
It can be hard to encourage your child to eat healthy food, but I think that one of the things that you should do is to try and mix healthy foods into the things that your child likes to eat. If s/he likes spaghetti bolognese for example then you could try and chop some vegetables into it. This might mean that your child wouldn't notice that the vegetables were in there and they would eat them without even thinking about it. If they ask for bread then try swapping it for brown bread as this is a lot better for your child.
@marguicha (225677)
• Chile
8 Oct 12
Teaching a child to eat is part of overall teaching. When I was a child and when my children were little, kids did not expect to have food made at their whim. They were supposed to eat everything in the plate. I remember I didnot like some food, but I had to eat it. I have learned now why I didn`t like those foods. Veggies were bland because they were overcooked. I now saute them or cook them al dente, mainly by steaming them. Children can learn how to eat if you tell them to eat at least a couple of bites from any new food. That`s what I have done with my grandchildren. There are thousand ways to eat a potato. Why don`t you show them what`s going on at your kitchen? THey are more interested in something if they are part of it.
@rs1982 (99)
• United States
9 Oct 12
Yes you are right. When they visited us, I showed the kid what I was cooking for everyone and he was interested to eat that too. I agree, we never had meals made for us specially. We ate what the whole family ate.
@Paper_Doll (2373)
• Philippines
9 Oct 12
My other brother don't like veggies so my mom usually blend or cut veggies into small pieces so that my brother won't notice them because the moment he sees veggies in meal, he would make my mom get canned goods for him. I remember that my mom would usually make chicken omelet and my brother loves it not knowing that my mom included veggies in it. But of course, it is much better if the kids would know that they are actually eating veggies. We also don't eat much fruit even if they are already available so my mom would make an effort to make fruit salad, buko pandan, fruit shakes or mango jelly for us.
• Southend-On-Sea, England
8 Oct 12
I'd probably try to make the healthy meal seem like fun for the child. Maybe I'd arrange the food on the plate such that it looks like a smiley face, or a train or a rocket ship or similar and make up a story about it. If that didn't work, bearing in mind the child is asking for bread/cheese/noodles/spaghetti (which aren't bad foods in themselves as they are good carbohydrates which our body needs for energy....it's what we put on them that makes them poor in nutritional value), I'd probably grate some cheese over the food and maybe now and again serve it with noodles or spaghetti, or perhaps hot bread instead of the baked potato. Not sure if any of that would work, but that's what I'd try. If it didn't work, I'd probably be tearing my hair out in frustration.
@echoforever (5180)
• United States
8 Oct 12
Sorry but I think you have it pretty good for your toddlers. My nieces are even worse off than that. We try to feed them well too but they won't eat anything we give them almost. We just want them to eat anything at that point. If your child is asking for spaghetti and not top ramen or something like that you're doing good.