Increased cases of female molestation.. How to deal with it?

India
October 9, 2012 1:27am CST
Hey guys, i am totally pissed off with the increased cases of female molestations around. The cases have increased to such an extent that women are finding it increasingly difficult to even walk during the evening time so much so that even woman feel unsafe to be at home alone even during the day time. I do not know whom to blame for this but seriously there is something wrong with the molesters who are always portraying woman in a wrong picture. they are bringing shame not only to the society but also to their families who have taken a lot of pain to upbring them. So guys, what is your thought about this? Who will u blame for this? Are woman still unsafe even in this hi-tech world?
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4 responses
• China
9 Oct 12
I believe that women should be treated equally. In fact, I have seen many cases that men look down upon women and even abuse them. We can not deny that women play a important role in our society. Therefore, insulting women shows that our society is not developed. If women can not assure they will be safe in different cases, it must be a shame for the whole society.
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• India
10 Oct 12
Hey thanks a ton for your response. Yes u are absolutely right, a society is made by both men and women and it is simply an injustice if they are oppressed and molested by their husbands. This is so much against the law of nature. They cannot be looked down upon just because they are silent and can sacrifice everything. They too have their feelings and they also have their right to have their say in the whole society. What say?
@rosegardens (3034)
• United States
16 Oct 12
I blame our culture for the most part. We live in a highly provocative society that encourages such behaviors. Also it seems, parents are not teaching their children how to behave around members opposite of themselves. There's a man I know, who I just cannot stand to speak with. He lives with his mother, and when he began assaulting me over the phone I said something to the effect: your mother must not be in the room because you are talking this way, and she really should wash your mouth with soap. Turns out she was sitting near the phone and heard everything, and was laughing at her sons indiscretions. I was floored, I mean what can you say to that? So here is just one case of a man who does not know how to treat women, and given the opportunity would more than likely molest someone, and a mother encouraging bad behavior. A mother. A woman, encouraging her son to abuse women. How sad, and sick. As I am single, it is very frightening for me. I don't like being home alone, and I am concerned about shopping and even walking down the street.
• United States
28 Nov 12
lol! As tempting as it may be, we just cannot get rid of them, even if we could do so with no penalties. That would make us no better than they are morally. I just wish the media would teach people how to behave toward one another. I think if the media would change, so would our culture. We are driven largely by the media; what we see on tv and hear over the radio affects us greatly and forms our culture. What do you think?
• India
28 Nov 12
Thanks a ton for your valuable response again. yes u are very much correct, media has influenced our lives very much. Nowadays they have become our teachers. We are imitating everything that is being shown on TV screens so what can be expect from the youngsters today. can we see them respecting the elders in such situation? No doubt we can avoid what is being shown on TV but in such cases we should use ur conscience on what to see and what to implement in our life. What say?
• India
17 Oct 12
Thanks a ton for your response. Well definitely it is the society to be blamed entirely as it has never encouraged males to respect their opposite gender. This is the reason they consider them as mere puppets and who are meant to be thrown away after being used. I feel extremely bad about that pervert guy who was assaulting over the phone and his mother laughing at his son's deeds. That speaks clearly how his entire family would be and we need to get rid of such people in our society at large. What say?
@riyauro (6421)
• India
9 Oct 12
Only men are supposed to be blamed because if they want it so desperately, they must do something about it themselves and don't act like an animal. Molestation means forcing on someone which is bad because some men are worse than animals. these typed of people should be ejected in the space..Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.
• India
10 Oct 12
Hey thanks a ton for your response. Yes u are absolutely right, these people are simply desperate to rule over other people and when they see their own wives being so naive and silent, they get an opportunity to hurt and molest them. This is so much against the law of nature. They need to be punished like anything, i think putting them inside the zoos where the animals stay would be a better option. Housewives have to show that aggression to raise their voice against such oppression. What say?
@rs1982 (99)
• United States
10 Oct 12
Yes, even during morning, or noon, it is tough to walk past a street without feeling queasy. It is scary is someone passes by on a bike..you never know how psycho a person could be. Even if you are covered from head to toe, there is no guarantee that you may not be felt up at least once in a lifetime...or a month..or a week!!! Maybe pepper sprays should be made mandatory. Likewise, girls should be taught self defense as mandatory.. The police seem to be only there..without any help..not all might be like that but the law needs to be stricter. Honest and responsible policemen should be in charge of fighting this kind of crime..more women police should patrol on streets everywhere..that might be of help too. Pepper spray..of course..should be there with every single female on the road..
• India
11 Oct 12
Thanks a ton for your response. Hey hats off to your suggestions and views. Yes u are absolutely right, i had heard about a woman getting attacked by some assailants at 6am while she was talking a walk and that speaks how unsafe woman are. They should have a pepper spray as u said and if possible learn some self defense techniques like karate, judo that will help them the most while at trouble. Policewoman should be deployed everywhere on the streets so that woman would feel a lot safer while walking on the streets. What say?