No Regret
By helenworry
@helenworry (71)
October 9, 2012 8:43am CST
My grandfather passed away for a long time. However, I still believe that he is alive and around me. His voice and smile are in my mind. I really miss my grandfather,to avoid missing the classes,my parents did't tell me the death of my grandfather and I didn't attend my grandfather's funeral rites. I felt very regret about that and I would choose to attend the funeral rites if I was given another chance.So try your best to avoid doing the things you will regret in the future.
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3 responses
@Kashidanga1971 (1354)
• Bangladesh
9 Oct 12
Unfortunately you could not attend your grandpa's fureral rites. Is not our grandpa or grandma greater than what ever we do? Did they not kiss or love us when we were a little baby? I would say its your lifetime repent you will never end doing it. Stay fine.
@helenworry (71)
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10 Oct 12
Yes,It would be my pity forever and I could't miss it up.So I told myself that I would try my best to avoid missing the important and I hope I can avoid the pity.
@riyauro (6421)
• India
9 Oct 12
I don't know how they could hide this from you. Did you have your finals or something when he passed away???? Otherwise i feel it was unfair to hide it from you. He was your grandfather and not just anyone. I would not do things like this intentionally. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead. 
@helenworry (71)
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9 Oct 12
At that time I was a grade three student in high school,and a few days latter i would participated in college entrance examination.My parents felt anxious that I would be too grieved and have no passion to study,I understand them and don't blame them.
@GemmaR (8517)
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9 Oct 12
It is very easy for you to regret things when you lose people, because you are upset and it is completely normal for you to start thinking about which things you should have done better. However, it does not help to think like this because there is nothing that you can do to change the past so there honestly isn't all that much point in thinking about it. One of the things that you should do is to try and make a list of all the good times that you had together, and this should make you feel better about any regrets that you may have had.
@helenworry (71)
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9 Oct 12
I think making a list of all the good times maybe a good way and I will have a try.I can remind the happy time I spent with my grandfather.It's useful to regret and I would forgive mtself and be happy.
