How to build a good relationship
By helenworry
@helenworry (71)
October 9, 2012 9:14am CST
Recently I find that building a good relationship is a pretty difficult matter. I always think that if I treat a friend sincerely,she would treat me in the same way. However,the result is different from that.Sometimes they would lose their temper and be angry with me.I think I did nothing wrong and I did't know what caused this situation.Building a good relatinship is a really difficult thing.
4 responses
@akagami (250)
• Indonesia
10 Oct 12
yeah you,re right build a good relationship is very difficult.we must know each other and we must understand our problem.so very hard to know it.
@helenworry (71)
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10 Oct 12
Yes, sometimes we can't understand each other well and may have an argument. I don't know how to treat others.
@GemmaR (8517)
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9 Oct 12
Usually, if you are nice to people then they will be nice back to you. When this isn't the case, then you should probably assume that the person simply isn't worth your time. If they are worth it then they will treat you in a way that makes you feel happy and good about yourself. I have a fantastic group of friends are we are all always there for each other when something is going wrong, and I am fairly confident that this is going to be the case for a long time to come, but those who aren't nice to you; simply get rid of them.
@helenworry (71)
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10 Oct 12
I am glad to hear that you and your friends are always there for each other when something goes wrong,I hope I can have tha same group as you.I hope I can find some sincere friends.
@Kashidanga1971 (1354)
• Bangladesh
9 Oct 12
Relationship may be built in between two individual when the mentality is same to that of one's counterpart. While treating an individual we must not pamper them much or we must not seek to be pampered much by others. We must be frugal and logical in speaking. We must not get ego and respond to others responsibly. If any one tries to expose any ego, then just pass by him. Maintaining personality is a must. Personality does not mean exercise of arrogance or indecency.
I would say there is hardly any friend around us. Be friend of yourself. One is live and survive by onself. Stay fine.
@helenworry (71)
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9 Oct 12
Yes,maintaining personality is a must.However, maintaining personality can harm our friends.Sometime I don't know why they are angry,sometimes their speaking do really hurt me.
@helenworry (71)
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9 Oct 12
I also want to be myself, however, you know that the relationship with classmates is really important.It is not only related to your election,but also related to my grades.I want to get a good grade,so I am so confused and worried now.
