I become more rely on my parents as the growth of age

China
October 9, 2012 9:29am CST
I believe that everyone want to leave your parents to living on your own,don't you? That may call traitorous behaviour form psychology,especially happen in people's adolescence.I have the same feeling,too.In my high school,I want to leave my parents and don't accept all their words.I do everything as long as they against to my parents' requirement. But now I am regret for those behaviour during that period.Now I rely more on my parents and want to spend every minute with them.I don't want to leave them although I must go to college. So please do good to your parents and cherish every minute you spend with them.Don't wait until too late to regret.
6 responses
@GemmaR (8517)
9 Oct 12
It is normal for us to worry about leaving the home that we have grown up in, and as a result of that we might be thinking that we will never be able to leave our parents, but this is not the case by any means. It will take a fair amount of getting used to when you leave the home, but you know that your parents are always going to be there for you when you get back from your college and this means that you should go ahead and have fun. Your parents would love for you to be a success, so this is a great thing to do to show them that you can be.
• China
11 Oct 12
So I am trying to be more inedpendent to let my parents to be ease.I don't want my parents to worry more about me.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
4 Jan 13
hi, when my parents getting older and older,i am more like to be with them always,because life is too short and i wanted to be with them,i will give what they want,i don't want to wait that i will regret in the future so i want now to feel them my love.
@anklesmash (1412)
9 Oct 12
I so know about the need to cherish whatever time you have with your parents I know this because I have already lost a parent.Though wanting to make the most of your time with your parents shouldn't stop you from moving out as you can't put your life on hold for ever.My mum wants me to move away from home and start a life of my own but i will always remain close to her and keep in contact with her. I'm living away at the moment at university and speak to her on the phone at least once everyday.
• India
23 Oct 12
Hi friend, you are right, we must give more importance to our parents. They are experienced persons and know what is good and what is bad for us, they always guide us in a good manner and if we follow their words, surely we will get a lot of benefits in our life. Sad to hear that you opposed your parents words and regrets a lot for it, anyway you realized your fault now. Hope you never do the mistake again in your life time
• China
10 Oct 12
I share the same feeling with you. When I stay at home, I will take what my mom has done for me for granted. Therefore, I can not wait to leave them to stay by myself. However, when I enroll in university which is far away from my hometown, I feel regretful because we will not have so much time together.
@ztuberi (395)
• Philippines
11 Oct 12
Then parents should be patient and should a lot of understanding that their children will come to a point like that. It's a crucial stage for young people that parents should be aware of and should give a lot of attention.