When people are rude and annoying

I don't think there is really a solution. Some people are just downright mean and they will pick on and bully people that they believe to be weaker than them. How you handle it or deal with it, I think is based on how you carry yourself. My best advice is just don't put up with anyone's crap. If someone is intentionally picking on you or giving you attitude.....my philosophy is "eye for an eye"...don't dish it out if you can't take it. Most bullies are insecure and weak themselves, yet they prey on people who they believe are an easy target....it may not be in your character to retaliate or give them attitude back or give them a "taste of their own medicine", but in my experience, that's sometimes what you have to do to get someone off of your back. There have been times in my life when I've had to deal with difficult people or people who take my kindness for weakness...that's my problem, I'm too nice. If you feel like someone is intentionally picking on you and you don't want to "fuel the fire" then I would just say to ignore it. Some would say that's being the bigger person, don't stoop to their level. But if you want to get ignorant and play the game with them, play it, just play it better.

I think bullies must be treated with some rudeness. As soon as they know you defend yourself they get scared. They only bully those who they think it's easy and won't react. In highschool I was bullied for racism, first it was 3, then 10, 12, and in weeks about 30 something girls were bullying me. When I threw one from the stairs all the other groups stopped... it has been like this in work too... they are cowards.

When I started high school some girls try to intimidate me but after a month I stand up to them by fighting back and things turn out that I am friends with the main girl till today lol . I dont like people that are always trying to bully people. I make my present known wherever I am and that way no one try to mess with me . So I think you should stand up to that person because their is nothing they can do to you . They are just talk and if you stand up for yourself you will be better respected by others and be confident in whatever you do. When they are rude dont continue to turn the other cheek because you will run out of cheek .

Sometimes it can feel as though everybody is being rude to you and as though there is nothing that you can do about it. I feel like this sometimes when I am out with my friends because there are a couple of them who just seem to take me for granted and snap at me just because they've had a bad day. I will sometimes tell them the way that they're making me feel, and at times this means that they will be a little nicer to me for a while, but it never lasts very long. We just have to smile, be brave, and try to get along with things.

You can't get away with it because as you say i am being targeted. For me, i might as well face my problem and deal with it. If he really intend to hurt me then i will defend myself and give him a dose of her own medicine.