Where to buy endurance?
By jazel_juan
@jazel_juan (15747)
Philippines
October 9, 2012 6:56pm CST
^_^ i am not talking about another kind of endurance.. lol but i am talking about inner endurance.
These past few days my husband feels like he is PMSing again! He does not talk to me. when we come home, he head straight for the bed and sleep. When i ask him what is wrong he just tell me he is not feeling well..so as a dutiful wife i made him soup and prepared medicines for him YET he did not eat it and did not drink the medicines. how infuriating is that? then i gave him massage yet he gets grumpy and all.. grr and when he wakes up he does not even smile!
then last night it was that way again, i do not know what to do, its like i really need a lot of endurance to endure this kind of attitude from him. i want to cry then i chose not to cry again, i refuse to cry over this kind of behavior. so i did not. i lied down and slept. then this morning on our way to the office, i did not speak to him all the way because..well i am just tired, i guess he got over his PMS lol and he told me he was sorry for the way he acted the past few days.
i am not mad, just a bit pissed. men! 
4 responses
@atprudente6 (673)
• Philippines
10 Oct 12
1. If you feel like crying because these things, you should not hold it. Cry until the heaviness that you are feeling is gone.
2. Just pray. Our Lord will always give you endurance to endure marital problems and alike.
3. You could also confide with a friend or a relative so that your burden will be lessen.
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
11 Oct 12
yes but sometimes it is hard to cry always..so this time i did not instead i prayed.
@quanquanzhang (504)
• China
10 Oct 12
endurance is hard for me ,i can understand your feeling,compared to woman,man likes silience,i think,but we must endure because we love the peotple who love us,it will be better after some time, the bad things will go ,good luck!
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
10 Oct 12
yes endurance was very hard for me back then, during our first few years it was really hard, i could not help but cry all the time.. but now i could control my self and ignore it lol
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
10 Oct 12
Just as we have our "topak days" jazel, men have that also.
Me, when my husband is like that, i just let him and be also silent myself. When i do that, he mellows.
I think it is harder for them when we do that, so they would give in.
Nice job , jazel! 
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
10 Oct 12
yes indeed those were his topak days, he was better last night lol
@Raine38 (12250)
• United States
10 Oct 12
That's exactly the kind of endurance that entered my mind when I read the title haha!
My husband also have mood swings like that, but he's still young to PMS. I think he's just having a lousy day at work. We used to talk all the time but now he just wants to shower and lay down after a day's work. Well, what else can wives like us do but understand and be the loving and supportive wife.
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
10 Oct 12
I guess you are right, we must always have that longer patience..longer endurance. it is hard but then again, that is what is all about right? hahaha yes he might just be too young for PMS..