Is marrying at your early 20s worth it?

sometimes it works well..sometimes it doesnt.. people from 19th century can get married even younger than that and doesnt caused any problem in their married life and family life..its just probably atitude of individuals and couples towards the marriage in itself..

Yes I believe it is not worth it. Marriage a serious thing and it requires time to finally decide if one should go ahead with it. Much more when you are around 20 you are at the stage of experiencing things that you have always dreamt of doing while growing up. Do not be afraid of the future, look at the future in a positive manner and let the future take care of itself.

I guess mid20's is ideal. I married at 20 and I was not actually ready. Good that I have kind and generous parents, they were the ones paying my school fees even if I was already married. My husband has been a stay at home dad for a long time already. He is not fortunate enough to find a good job for him.

I really don't think there is a certain good age to get married at. As long as your both mature enough to know it is a LIFETIME committment than any age that is good for you! I got married at 20 years old and that was almost 8 years ago and my husband and I are still very much in love and going strong together! =) No matter what we go through we stick together, we are a team. You should go into marriage thinking it is a forever thing, not a right now thing. If you do that, you should be fine as long as your really in love and want to make it work!

In my experience better percentage of girls married between the age of 20 to 25 are found having stable and satisfied married life. It seems upto 20 years is growth period mentally or physically. Normally after 25 is considered a bit or more delayed.

well, in my opinion it's not about the age. I think it's more about whether you are ready or not to take the responsibility as a wife or a husband and also as the parents for your future children. Some people also decide to get married when they are financially stable. Just like my boyfriend, he doesn't want to get married this soon, because he calculate everything that we will probably need for the life after the marriage. But, for women like us both, we have our 'deadline' because we someday have to deliver a baby, and if we're to old, it will be very risky, won't it? ^^

In these uncertain times I say grab every happiness you can and if you feel in your heart of hearts that he is the 'one' then it doesn't matter how old you are, you don't get many opportunities in this life to find someone really special. Is he your soulmate? Could you envisage spending the rest of your life with him? I know of people who have married in their late teens and are still happily married, and yet I know of people who have waited till their in their 30s and 40s and regretted tying the knot! It depends on the person if they are ready, there's not really a specific age. Be Happy!

Before your mid twenties is the best age to get married. I cannot say the youngest but suppose it would be seventeen. The reason is that once you go pat mood 20s, your chances of pregnancy decrease and of course, there is chance of pregnancy complications increasing. Of course you are afraid of the future. You probably heard of those who slept together and then as soon as they got married, it lasted only a few years and they broke up even though they had been together for ten or more years. Marriage brings a lot of responsibilities, and you have to get over the mindset of no responsibility, going to work, not having to account for anything, your money is yours and his money is his. He likes football, you like baseball (these are examples) but when you get married, you have to maybe give up your desire to go to a baseball game or visa versa because you cannot afford both.

I don't think that age really matters a lot of time, as long as you both want the same things from your life at the time that you're getting married. If you love somebody, and you are sure that you have a long and happy future together, then I think that it might be a really good idea to get married with them. You should write a list of all of the good things and the bad things that might happen from getting married and then see if you can work out whether it is the right thing for you. Only you can make this huge decisions about your future.

That all depends on you because no one person will have the same experience. I was married at 21. Married the wrong person because I'd grown up in a very sheltered life and the only thing I ever learned about boys from my parents was well. very confusing to say the least., "If a boy ever asks you to marry him, break up with him. The engagement ring is mean to enslave you!"

I got married when I was 23 years old, Hubby was 36 years old, it was different for us but all in all we both had commitment in mind, no matter what happened. Forward 11 years we've gotten though a lot of hurdles and gut-wrenching times and it actually brought us closer than we were 12 years ago. Our marriage is founded on trust, dedication, a pure love - the kind that you'll do anything for the other person kind of love, and now kids. We will never rip apart our family because of our own wants, we'll be there with our kids through it all. We do lots of family time stuff, and we've even had people tell us how surprised we were that we spend so much time with our kids. We didn't try to do that, it just came natural to us, our family *IS* our life. We're inseperable.

it all depends on your perspective if you know how to handle life afterwards its fine

We can marry when we are ready, emotionally, physically and financially, I believe. There is no specific age because we mature differently, it depends on person to person. Getting married is something that is out of my mind, way back when I still young. I finally realized the value of having a partner when I met my wife. Yes, every commitment has its inherent risk and we cannot avoid that. We need to face, it's the reality

As long as you are physically, emotionally, spiritually ready, there's nothing wrong with marrying at an early age. I am not speaking for myself, because I got married late at 32. But the advantage I see for marrying early as well as having a child early, is that you can still enjoy your kids' teenage years. If you're marrying say at 23, got a baby on the 24th, then when you kid reached 18, you are still young at 42. You can still go out with them, spend nice time with them. I am not saying that the old parents cannot... but you know, there is really a big difference. When my son reaches 18, I will already be 51 I just hope I can still be as energetic as I am now so I can still go along with what's new on their generation.

It depends on. But I personally think marring at my early 20s is rather early for me. After I graduated from the college, I was already at that age. I didn't want to get married soon after graduation. I was not mature yet. Besides, I need more time to know more each other. As the marriage is a lifetime issue for me. I don't want to feel regretful to it. Finally I got married when I was 28 years old.

I got married when I was almost 22 years old. I didn't regret marrying at an early age. It's good because while I'm still young, I am able to send my child to school already. He will graduate in university 14 years from now. That means I'm still young. LOL. There are advantages and disadvantages in marrying early. I hope you will decide about it carefully. Happy mylotting.

For girl, 23 to 27 is the best age for marriage. While 28 to 32 is the best marriage age for boy. As we all know, the best age for woman to have a baby is between 24 and 30, too young or too old are not good for baby. And man always is the main financial resource of a family, so if a man is too young and can't have stable finance, it will be very hard to deal with family expenditure after marriage. Hence i think man should be older than woman when they have marriage. But i find many person having marriage at a pretty early age, they live happily as well. So age is not the main factor. It's depending on your mutual love and your attitude toward your coming marriage.

Well it depends to the person who you are marrying. But if you really love the person without any second thoughts, then it must be really worth it! :)

I never recomend any delay in marriage. If someone wants to build a happy conjugal life then its not any delay in marriage. Late marriage partners cant satisfy each other so to speak the truth. While going with a conjugal life they may try to build their financial career. But financial career should not be any condition of starting a conjugal life. Stay fine.

You said it yourself, that marriage is a lifetime commitment. Following this line of thought, it is indeed one of our lives' major decision to make. We must be ready in all aspects of our lives before we settle into this. I think, it does not matter if you're in your early or late 20's just as long as you are ready. When there is nothing holding you back, when there are no more doubts, when you have already enjoyed being single, and you feel that it is he perfect time.