Wanting parents agreement.

Hi Erynn14, i understand how you feel, I've been there before. I am in love and i really care for him when i am at your age but my parent disagree with our relationship. I admit that i am hard headed during those days and i continued our relationship even though my parents against with it. The relationship was last for 3 years behind my parents back because i am too afraid to admit our relationship but when they discovered it, they are very disappointed on me but my ex boyfriend proven himself by working hard and showing how good person he was. My parents still doesn't like him because of some personal reason so i just decided to end the relationship even though its hard, but i end it not because of my parents will, its because i can not bear to see him hurting and suffering because of me. I hurt him so much and it took many years before he forgive and forget me. In your situation I know it hard but be strong, trying to prove to your parents that your not going to do anything to hurt and disappoint them. Also try to understand them i think they just too strict to you now because your too young to get into relationship and they just afraid that you might get hurt which can break they heart too. I am hoping that you will a good way to admit to your parents about you relationship and do you best not to hurt them.

Hi, dear, I read your profile and noticed that you are just sixteen years old. Maybe your parents just don't want you to make boy friend now as you are so young. In my country, people get married at 22 or obove. And young people are in love when they are above 20. Usually young people like your age are not allowed to make boy friends by parents. They just worry about you, I think. Just my opinion.

For me the question would be why they don't want you to be with your boyfriend. If it is because they think you are too young to have a boyfriend, then you should discuss that with them first. If it is because they don't like your boyfriend in particular, then you should tell them about your point of view on him and why you think they should agree.

One of the worst things that can happen is when our parents don't approve of the person who we want to be with. It can be hard, because your parents and your partner are probably the people who you love most in your whole life, and the only thing that you are going to want is for the two of them to get along with each other. You should try to listen to their reasons that they don't like him, because they might be right about some of the things, or you might just need to talk to them about why you love your partner as they might not see him in the same light as you.

I agree with you. You can try to do as you want. I understand your situation now. You don't want to broke up with your boyfriend but your parents can't accept your boyfriend. It's a trouble which you have to deal with. But no matter how you must tell your parents the truth that you've been together with your boyfriend all the time. In my opinion, mostly we should accept our parents advice, because parents advice usually be proved to be correct finally. Parents have far more experience than us and they truly love us, all what they do is for us. So why don't we listen parents advice? If you really love your boyfriend, you can ask you parents why they dislike this guy. Maybe your parents can tell you some new points about your boyfriend that you can't get by youself.

Firstly I think you should ask one questions to yourself:Why your parents hate your boyfriend and why they need you to break up with him?I think that is very important and you should figure out those problem first,you should apply the medicine according to indications.

You have to to tell the truth to your boyfriend first,that your parents must know you are still seeing each other,yet he must have to proved his worth by showing great respect to your parents and the most important thing,is that he must prove to them he is worthy to become your future husband,by letting them know he has a solid work that can support you both when living together,that he has a plan to make your living together a success by having a substantial savings deposit for the planning of your future.if your parents know this,I think they will vindicate his being your boyfriend to be free to visit you everyday.He will show his sincerity and security and guaranty that could live happily ever after.

Hi! Sorry to say that I'm not totally agree with you to the point that they are your parents. As what they say "parents know best". Well, every parent is unique though... but if your parents are doing their best for your own good in any ways then there's no reason not to follow them. On the contrary, if your parents are doing this for their own interest, I think it's time weigh things over and over again. I know you're mature enough to handle things. Keep on prayin'.

Thanks a ton for sharing the discussion. Well i can understand the situation u are going through and i am sure u must be tensed about this also. i think u should calm down and think deeply about how to sort out this situation. We all know that our parents always think of our betterment only and for this reason u should ask your parents why they disapprove him and after knowing that u should convince them to meet him at least once and know him better. If things does not go your way then u should sacrifice him for your parents sake. What say?

For the fact that you are just 16 years old. I think you just have to chill and don't think that the boyfriend that you have right now is the one. Well, actually, it's good that you want for your parents to know about what you feel. I think the best person to talk to is your mom. Your mom was also a girl like you so I think she will understand your situation more than anybody else in here. Talk to her in a calm way. Try to tell her about what you wrote in here. It's good to have an open relationship with your parents. But if they are really prohibiting you to have an affair with this guy, I think you should follow them before you regret it in the future. You parents know best. And anyway, you are still too young for such kind of relationship. And if the boy loves you, he will wait, no matter what happens. For now, it's best to talk with your mom.