how to come up with a good decision?

Philippines
October 10, 2012 3:13am CST
I will admit I am not a good decision maker. At times, i want things so badly that i thought i wanted it forever but when i decided to do or get it that's when i will regret. Thinking that i should have not done those or should have not get it or should have not been there. It came to a point that i got angry at myself for doing it. How can i avoid this wrong decisions? How can i come up with right and good decisions? Can you guys lend me some advice?
3 responses
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
10 Oct 12
Hi, Welcome to mylot. Don't think that you can not take right decision. The decision of joining mylot is a good decision. You can take decision. If you have some confusion you can now ask your mylot friends. Here we can get solution to our problem.
• Philippines
10 Oct 12
hey there! thank you for making me realize i just made a good decision a while ago by joining mylot! i thanked my dear friend for introducing this site to me.
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@fatlex06 (895)
• Philippines
11 Oct 12
Actually, you are lucky to experience those kind of things in your life right now. Why? Because some people haven't started in that kind of situation where you are into so they will find it hard to face difficult decisions. :D The decisions that you are making is more of you not of us. I think you should think and weigh your decisions, if which is which and much better. I think it's part of our lives to have wrong decisions sometimes, so what you have to do is just deal with it and learn from it. Just weigh the decisions that you have. And you must be confident of what you'll be deciding. If you have hesitations, think more. Ask yourself what will be the pros and cons if such decision was made. Best of luck buddy. :)
@GemmaR (8517)
10 Oct 12
Sometimes it can be hard to make a decision in life, especially when it is about something that might have a large impact on your future. One of the things that you can do is to write a list of all of the good and bad things that might be about each decision. Sometimes it is a lot easier to see when you write them down. Another thing that you should do is to talk to your close friends about it, as they will be the ones who can see your life from another point of view and might be able to give you another view point about it.