stop cheating

i also had experience this. but actually now we can see this anywhere. i doesnt matter boys or girls just the same.

i understand what is your feeling about that. because i am also like you. i easily get into others emotions specially when it comes into break up relationships. i give them advice not just to forget the one who hurt them but to pray for them as well. i never leave their side until they move on. i experience that when my husband and i were bf/gf. he cheated on me. i let him go. i never text or call him. but i still hoping that one day he will realize that he still want me to be his wife in the future. i pray for his health and everything but never pray for him to come back to me even that is what i wanted. a year ago. i saw him waiting outside and we talk and ask forgiveness with each other. then we make up and promise to forget all the past. i know its hard for me to do that but i try hard. and by his help i do forget now we are a picture of a happy family.

if you are going to commit, then clearly know about your loved one. verify about then, do not be close within a short time, and more over gold the simple friendship for a long time. then you can understand then totally.

it is become so common and it is really very depressing. I would never want to be in that situation. People should stop cheating and come upfront and say that they have someone else. Gosh it would at least reduce some pain instead of cheating. I don't know why people do this. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.

While I personally haven't experienced being cheated on (and I wish it will never happen), I can sympathize because my own mom was cheated on by my own dad during the early years of their marriage. The same also happened to some of my close friends, and I feel their pain. We can never really understand how the mind of a cheater works. I have heard, based on my experience again, their numerous excuses but their most favorite is that they didn't mean to fall in love with someone else. I think thats full of BS, because I believe that even if the woman disrobes right on front of them and their love for their partners is strong, they will never get involved. I'm sure that they will also be hurt if their partner did to them what they have exactly done, but that didn't stop them from pursuing affairs, to the point of leaving their real partners. On the part of the other woman/man, they're also at fault because there are lots of available persons out there, why should they bother with someone who's already committed to someone else? I mean they're both old enough to know whats right and wrong, and no amount of excuse will justify what they did.

yeah i hate person like that. i really dont like that kind of person. soon that person will pay for what he/she to do. he/she will have that experiance more cruel.

Well, nobody is perfect. But still they don't have the right to cheat on their partners. I am also confuse why such people still do exist. LOL. And you are right, I think they have to experience it for themselves so they would know how bad the feeling is. Spare those people who cheated those partners. Burn them.

Hi mechelle, I myself also experienced on how to be cheated by my ex boyfriend.But of course, I already moved on, though sometimes, its quite hurtful but I am just saying to myself as a relief that he doesn't deserve me and he's not a lucky guy for me. It was a very hurtful experienced but I learned a lot on that relationship.Don't worry, they(the cheaters) will experience to be hurt too and that is in the form of "KARMA".