that one thing that you cant let go

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ever had something happen that you just cant let go of? back when my husband and I first started dating we went to ohio to see my family.His mom and I got along great, then all the sudden she was a bat to him and I. well while in ohio I received a picture message from her, was of a little girl. very cute little girl. I asked him who it was and he then was forced to tell me. An ex of his claimed it was his child. nobody ever mentioned this to me.. i felt.. so sick. even worse,she had moved in with HIS mother. making things very weird. thats why his mom began acting mean to him and I. the whole family was then against us being together. him and I were receiving harassing texts and facebook messages from her and HIS mother. she would say things to me like, hes only with you because you have the same name as me. she would say your fat the WHOLE family says I look better than you. your daughter isnt his mine is. she would text him and say " your a poor excuse for a father come over here and take care of your real child but dont bring her and bla bla bla. got to the point where we blocked everyone. she apparently told my husband that she never knew she was pregnant because she didnt contact him until the little girl was 3 weeks old. my husband was buying her things all the time. they tried to get back together but it didnt work. when the little girl was 6 months old she disappear and blocked him from her life. she moved in with his mother when the girl was 2 years old.. so its been that long. My husands father wanted to see us all the time but we refused to go over there because she was there. My husband asked for DNA. he told them all... thats all he wanted was DNA. if it came back positive then he wanted to see her he wanted to buy her whatever was needed and pay support. The mother said okay. we were at cvs buying the HOME dna test becuase she said come over and do it. as soon as were at the checkout we get a call she said " I would rather do it legally I change my mind." so were like okay well lets get it done legally but asap. They make excuse after excuse. no money to file, no gas to get there. today they were closed. Im sick today. the little girl had a fever so I took her to the hospital. it was one thing after another why they wouldnt go file. we finally had enough and told BOTH his parents... do not speak to us or contact us until you FORCE her to go file. if thats your grandchild fine you have every right to take in that child and her mother, but WE want DNA. his dad then put his foot down( my SO is a daddys boy) he said you need to go file and if its out grandbaby you can stay here as long as you need but you have to get a job and nobody will disrespect you in our home. if shes not ours, you can stay here ample time and we can help you get on your feet but you have to find your own place. My mother in law then took her to file. the next day, she moved out and got back with her mean abusive ex. My husband got court papers and had to go to court, she didnt show. because she didnt show... they closed the case. They cant continue without her. and we cant file against her. :( for a long time I swore she wasnt his. maybe because I hated it so bad. but as time went by I hoped she was his. NOW... we have a son together. were happily married. and his mother and I are VERY close. she says now .. its not his child. she always says I was right she knows now its not his child. here I am the ONLY one who thinks it is. everyone else let it go and has moved on. BUT I have not. I want DNA. what if it is his? We are missing out and wont ever know! :(