what give you the right?

Well, it is tough and terrible to get over but maybe you need to move on. No use crying over someone who has no feelings for you. Even if you were to be together, you would be constantly insecure and trying to change yourself in order to please him. Such a relationship isn't worth anyone's time or energy. Love is a two way path. You trust, bond and genuinely feel for each other. When you are with the person who loves you back as much or more than you do, you feel that spark. Hence, don't cry..go over, get some ice cream and spend time with your best buddies. You will feel good once you cheer up. Why do you want to waste precious tears while he is already back with his ex and having a gala time..

I can just imagine your pain, and frankly he doesn't deserve your tears, nor any more of your time. Who would do that to someone then expect things to be back the way they were before? Only cowards and retards do that. Im sure its hard to think of this now but someday you will thank him for this. Because someday, he will just find himself alone, while you have moved on and a better person because of all the crap that he made you go through.

im sorr to hear about this swissheart. i am sure you are going to be able to get over this. this person does not deserve you crying over him as he just used you thosse times when he is not with anyone. you were too good for this person because you were true and sincere. it hurts now... yes but you will soon forget how it feels and just learn from this and know that next time you should be careful and try to get to know more about the person so you would be protecting yourself from pain and anyone who may be out to just hurt you.

I am sorry about your heartbreak. It will be your best bet to go on with your life and get stronger from this. We all take chances when we choose to have relationships. Don't stop taking chances on love. Your ex probably needs to understand how to relate to people on a deeper level. There will always be these type of people, just learn what to look for and be careful.

it is kind of hardship and make you feel bad ,but over a period of time,things can become nice and proper for sure

You mean he went back to his ex, since he asked you to be his girl friend. In your other post you said she was manipulating, the reason why he left, she made him doing it. Now you know it's not true. What is true is that he used you. He did not want to be alone as the relationship with his ex was over. He needed you to feel better, to be someone again. Later on he came up with small and big excuses. You are right to be angry and you should ask him: why did you use me! Who do you think you are! I doubt he has the courage to give you a honest answer, since he is not a honest person at all. He will blame you, like he already did. Since it's way easier to blame others as to say: I did use you.

It sounds like this terrible guy used you as a rebound person. I feel sorry for you. I just hope you could move on. You must realize that it is not your loss and must be thankful to be out of this kind of relationship now, because if it lasted longer things would be more difficult. You should know by now and be happy that you did not choose the wrong guy to spend the rest of your life with. Let this experience make you a stronger person and a more careful one, but of course more importantly, still a loving person.

I have read in your earlier post that you were together and that you were upset because his ex was trying to get him back. I feel sorry for you at this point in time. I wish I was of some help. .. There is someone better for you. So don't worry God was just teaching a lesson that this guy was not worth it and uses you. So you should be happy that you came to know the truth and your eyes are open now. See the brighter side of what happened. all happens for good. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.

Ow! And that was the result after he had a connection or communication with his ex girlfriend.Though, it was really hurtful for you, you should accept the reality.At least, at the very beginning he was very true to you,it will be more hurtful if he will do that in the process of your very romantic relationship.Just be strong.I think the right guy will come soon on your way.

Hi Swissheart, Dont blame yourself for the mistake that he did. He didnt see you as his own treasure. Something precious to him. Dont let him strip you of your happiness. I think you were way off better without him anyways. I know that your heart's insecure and sad. But life goes on. If i were you, I'd cry my heart's content, and i'll live tomorrow a new day. And dont bother about him and his reasoning, as he will be able to feed you with one million excuses. Dont be sad, put on a smile, because good things happen to people who smiles =) Best wishes, omgimahero

I can understand .. thats really bad but i think he doesnt deserve u ..... be very choosy in finding the right person .... move on .. burn his pic (if you have any) and flush is down the lavatory