Being possessive in friendship is right or wrong???
By shrusweet
@shrusweet (21)
October 11, 2012 11:13am CST
Well,,. am very damm possessive with friends.. Being possessive with friends hurts alot.. How to overcome this? It makes me feel so depressed and stressed..
2 responses
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
11 Oct 12
Thanks a ton for your discussion. Well it is quite normal to be possessive about your friends and glad to hear that u love them a lot. I think u should them to have more space in friendship so that they do not irritated because of your possessiveness. Try to allow them to mix with other people and enjoy the way they want. that is the way to get rid of possessiveness.
What say?
@shrusweet (21)
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11 Oct 12
Thanks a lot for your response!!. Yeah you are obviously right. You mean??. Possessiveness comes only when starting to expecting things and if that doesn't be there no arguements and no frustration!!.,
@GemmaR (8517)
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12 Oct 12
I think that it is nice to be close to a friend, but you cannot be possessive because your friends do not belong to you and this is something that could be very dangerous and might mean that you would end up losing them as a friend at the end of it all. It can be hard to see your best friend going out with other people and having a good time, but you have to remember that they do have the right to have other friends, and this is just something that is always going to be the case. The sooner you get used to it, the better your friendship will be able to be.