Blame
By marsfire05
@marsfire05 (163)
Philippines
October 12, 2012 2:36am CST
That word, it is like a boomerang. It will have it turns,but eventually it will falls unto ground without ANYONE CATCHING IT. Blame means like appointing to someone the responsibility on something. The most common aspect in life the "BLAME" word is OVERUSED was in any types of RELATIONSHIP.Relationship at work, family, love, or anywhere. But as I go deeper into its meaning, "blame" word is typically useless for me. Because death in any relationship was never been natural nor can be blamed to anyone else but to ourselves. They had been killed by our own pride, ignorance and most of our attitude. FOr me "blame" can be replace with "accountable" so we can followed it with "I can do something better.." to ourselves. If for you guys, if you think you could make a word to replace the "blame" word on ourselves, would you try it somehow? What word could it be probably?
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@flowerchilde (12529)
• United States
12 Oct 12
I think the world is quick to want to "blame" someone for things, or even how life is! Now for that one, I blame us all! Some may like to blame this group or that group, or (gasp!) this ethinicity or that ethnicity when there is really only ONE race to "blame" the HUMAN race!
Yes, I agree that everyone should be much more responsible, also considerate.. would cover many things.
Yes, I agree that everyone should be much more responsible, also considerate.. would cover many things. @marsfire05 (163)
• Philippines
13 Oct 12
Being responsible , yeah, your right.. and it goes also with acceptance and understanding what has been done.. if it has been destructive or constructive. Good day.;)
@GemmaR (8517)
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12 Oct 12
I think that blame is something that everybody does at some point in their life, because one of the things about being human is that we have to have an answer for everything. If something goes wrong, we need to know why it has been the case and what we could have done in the future to be able to put it right again. I have had a lot of arguments in the past that I have been blamed for, but one of the things that I always say is that in arguments there always have to be two people otherwise there would never have been a problem in the first place.
@marsfire05 (163)
• Philippines
12 Oct 12
Yeah,I agree there has been a sayings that it takes two to tango. But it is not an excuse to reflect on oneself or act upon the right way. Every individual has their own mind setting, and how they react on a certain situation, whether it is by themselves only, or with someone else defines their character, and character can be change , either for best or worst. And it always depends on to you.:)
@marsfire05 (163)
• Philippines
12 Oct 12
Very right. Instead of picking or pointing all your fingers to blame someone, well , it is much healthier to figure it out what went wrong and find resolution on that instead.:)
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
12 Oct 12
Thanks a ton for sharing this discussion. Well yes u are absolutely right, blaming others is not the solution to all our problems. When we blame others it indirectly indicates that we are cowards and do not have that courage to admit the mistake or accept the truth rather try to load all the blame on others. If we blame others all the time then a time will come when all will blame us also for our mistakes.
What say?
@marsfire05 (163)
• Philippines
12 Oct 12
I can say you were trying to point that you use the "courage" instead of the blame, and for that you may not be able to be called coward. Am I right?
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
12 Oct 12
Hi,
You are right. Bad words are like boomerang. If we behave rudely with others we also behaved by others rudely. we should not blame others for our mistakes. We should accept our mistakes and try to improve ourselves. We should try to learn something from our mistakes and shouldn't blame others for our mistakes.
@marsfire05 (163)
• Philippines
12 Oct 12
One of the good things that you could have on instead of blaming, is helping ourselves improve and grow. This can be done by accepting the what went wrong then after correcting our mistakes and to continue to improve well. Life is a continuous process of improving.
@barood4money (376)
• India
12 Oct 12
It is very tough for me to blame somebody who is not really responsible. And in case of my girlfriend it is impossible to blame her even if she makes any mistakes. Because i don't want to hurt her. :)
@marsfire05 (163)
• Philippines
12 Oct 12
So you were giving insights regarding a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship eh? I think you are a loving boyfriend by the way you stated that you don't want anything to break your girl's hurt. Way great indeed. :)
