I Think I Like You
By YoghurtGal
@flapiz (23152)
United Kingdom
October 12, 2012 10:21am CST
Okay here's my story. I'm not "Miss-easy-girl". By that I mean it's hard to impress me and make me fall. So I never really expected to have any feelings for someone as of now much more someone I just met online.
But then came this not so good looking dude, which is not also so smart(I really am into smart guys). So we chatted a bit. He eventually told me he liked me and I told him I like myself too. After some exchanges I logged out the next day same story and so on. Then he told me he missed me when we were not able to chat and well I dismissed it with a joke.
Then one day I saw a video of him playing music and bulls eye. I think I like him now. But now he doesn't message me anymore. Toink. Now I think I'm missing him. Oh well maybe I just got used to his presence. Now I know why we shouldn't talk to strangers. 
The humorous irony of my like life.
The humorous irony of my like life.3 people like this
12 responses
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
12 Oct 12
Uh oh, well that will go in time.
Sometimes it really happens that we admire someone because of a particular quality.
Who knows,maybe he is just busy these days....and one day he will just pop again 
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@flapiz (23152)
• United Kingdom
13 Oct 12
Well I do hope he pops up again. If not, then oh well. Sh*t happens. I think I'm lucky I didn't invest too much feeling yet.
@melissa14344 (211)
• Philippines
13 Oct 12
Your feeling will pass, don't you worry. You'll have your chance in love too. Just get to know the man personally ( the man who will personally court you)
I experienced this too. So don't be sad, don't dwell too much about it. :D
@flapiz (23152)
• United Kingdom
14 Oct 12
Hi Melissa! I guess you are right knowing someone personally is better than knowing someone online. I think I was just disappointed how he gave up so easily. Anyway, I'm fine. I just like him not love him.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
13 Oct 12
Hi friend, good to know about your story. why he stopped his activities? Just send a message to him and ask the reason for his absence, i think he too have the same feelings like you, hope he will contact you soon
@flapiz (23152)
• United Kingdom
13 Oct 12
Hi! I think you're right maybe I just got used to him. He has been quite constant then he suddenly disappears. I guess moving on would be a great idea.
@kokomo (1867)
• Philippines
13 Oct 12
Maybe you are just fascinated with that video of him why did you feel like.As a lady,if someone preferably guy dedicates a song to us we felt as if our hair are long, we felt as if we are very beautiful.Don't feel bad if he ignores you already. You might not know, the next day, he will then send a message for you .
@flapiz (23152)
• United Kingdom
13 Oct 12
Well you're right maybe I was just flattered and all. Well I'd be glad if he messages me. If not then I should just let it go.
@montevilla (550)
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13 Oct 12
If he is really missing you he should be forgetting massaging you or maybe it just a plain joke for him, a simple words should not make lost his hope but maybe he might be quiet afraid you don't have any feeling toward him so he disappear.
anyway maybe one day you gonna meet each other and that time you can tell him exactly that you missing him after all.
Happy mylotting!
@flapiz (23152)
• United Kingdom
13 Oct 12
Oh yeah maybe he was just joking with me. If that's the case then oh well. I think I need to just move forward to another prospect.
@berting600 (3453)
• Philippines
12 Oct 12
Your story is like an elephant which was really naughty and was scared by so many,
until a small rat passed by the elephant was suddenly going out as if there was an enemy.You were so choosy and just hooked up by a plain cloth man,who is neither fit your taste of your dream man,yet he was the surprise runner of your heart to fall.Life sometimes has its own thrill and suspense in a very weird situation.
@flapiz (23152)
• United Kingdom
13 Oct 12
Yup I am quite choosy and also I am afraid of commitments. So I don't really wear my heart out on my sleeves. Now I am starting to loosen up but it seems the train has passed me by.
@artemeis (4194)
• China
12 Oct 12
I hope that you will not be discouraged and take it as if he is the only person on earth that could be on talking terms with you.
Since he has been taking the initiative, I suppose you can continue and let him do his part. Don't be overly worried for his "brief" absent since he has a life of his own to live which could have kept him preoccupied and away from you.
Dropping an email or mobile short message text to show your concern may be just what it needs to open the door of relationship for the both of you.
@flapiz (23152)
• United Kingdom
13 Oct 12
Well I'm not discouraged. But I'm a bit disappointed. I don't feel like myself since this just isn't me.
I think an email may do well but I do not want to send him one as I am not the forward type of girl.
I will just wait for him to message me again. If not well I should just try to forget.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
12 Oct 12
ohh its like the spell went against the wizard thing^^ because when he liked you, you didnt like him. but when you like him he doesnt like you. anyway sorry for your situation. i guess that when you saw his video you just realized that he had other qualities. you know it wasnt a bad thing. you learnt something. you learnt that sometimes our first sight feelings are not the reality. cause at first you didnt
like him at all but when you saw something personal of him you started to. it just shows that looks dont really matter when we like someone. we always learn something with everything that happens in our life. so dont be sad^^ and soon for sure a cute guy will come into your life.
@flapiz (23152)
• United Kingdom
13 Oct 12
Hi sweet! Yup I. Feel like karma hit me or the speed thing backfired.
But well I did learn from it. Actually this happens to me a lot of times.
I think I play too hard to get. I am not that sad though because I haven't invested too much feelings yet.
Now I'm just wondering do I like him now because he doesn't like me?
I know this is weird but I kinda find challenging guys more likable.
Or maybe his musicality won me over. I don't know.
Now I just feel confused with myself.
I did learn a lesson. I learned it in the hard way though.
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
12 Oct 12
Hey nice story really I liked it my friend. The way you started falling in that person love is interesting. Ask that person if possible to meet you personally, so that you two can spend some time with each other. I am sure you understood what I am saying
@flapiz (23152)
• United Kingdom
13 Oct 12
Well we are kinda long distance but I dont mind meeting up with him someday.
I am not falling in love with him (just starting to like him). Love is a strong thing.
I am not sure I am ready for love and commitment.
@Raine38 (12391)
• United States
13 Oct 12
Awww, it's okay flapiz. Just enjoy your experiences like this and learn the lessons you can pick up along the way. Just be careful in meeting strangers, but it seems to me you already know that. You will miss that when you're a bit older, it's so much fun to meet people who leave marks in your life, even if it didn't progress to something else.
@flapiz (23152)
• United Kingdom
13 Oct 12
I am careful with the people I meet online. I do avoid the maniac types. He seems nice and my cousin is a common friend.
Anyhow I did learn my lesson. And if it ends here I am still happy for the moments we shared and for feeling like an important person to him for a short while.
Hey there are other guys out there. I just like him. Maybe i'll find someone I'd love in the future.
@flapiz (23152)
• United Kingdom
13 Oct 12
I don't want to message him. I am too shy. Haha.
Well I will just wait if he message me again.
If not, well I think I'll move on. It's not like I love him.
I just like him A LOT. But well it's not a die for.
