Do you believe in a right love at a wrong time?
By bembzee
@bembzee (768)
Philippines
October 13, 2012 7:12am CST
Many people believe that if given a chance they would have married to someone else. This is where the famous line of right love at wrong time stands. This is possible in some open discussions that one may agree or disagree. Can their be really right love at the wrong time? Is this possible or is only an imaginative defense of a not happy individual to a present relation? Do you personally believe in having a right love at wrong time? Why so?
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@GemmaR (8517)
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14 Oct 12
I think that I have been in this kind of situation in my life, so I do certainly believe that you can meet the perfect person for you but just at the wrong time. For example, I met a man before I went to University and I got on with him brilliantly. But I knew that there was no way that I could be with him because his priorities in life were different to mine, and I just had to make sure that I concentrated on my own work. It worked out for the best, but it didn't feel like it at the time as I thought that I had thrown away something that could have been very special.
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@CelticSoulSister (1640)
• Southend-On-Sea, England
14 Oct 12
Yes, I believe in the right love at the wrong time. I met somebody when I was married who I fell head over heels in love with, yet had I not met that person whilst married, I'd just have happily continued as I was. If I'd have met the person I fell in love with before I married, then I would have taken that person instead of the person I did marry.
@sjvenden27 (1840)
• United States
14 Oct 12
Yes I believe its true... My other half was taken way too soon.. we had so many things planned for the future.. We were going to rasie our boys together.. Start a business and so so much more... Time was too short.. I guess thats why I am always in a hurry now... well thats the way it feels... Its hard to explain but just wish things were different.. why did god have to take em...
@kokomo (1867)
• Philippines
14 Oct 12
I do believe on that saying.Me myself is experiencing that "right love at the wrong time "right now.I have my boyfriend this time and we are in a long distance relationship.I can say that our love is in a wrong time because we can not be together this time, maybe a year or two or more years to come before we can be together.We have still responsibilities with each of our families and it is not yet time for us.
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
13 Oct 12
Hi there !
There is nothing like it - right love at the wrong time. It is only a way to defend one's position.
No situation, no circumstances and no love could ever be perfect. It is for an individual how s/he adjusts with the given situation.
To always think that I could have taken a better decision or for that matter could have choosen a better partner is nothing more than an illusion.
We should be satisfied whatever decisions we have taken in our life.
@sriroshan (2585)
• India
13 Oct 12
I do not agree about this when two people are really in love there is no chance that right love can be at wrong time. Such situation is like nothing but the forced marriage against one wish
@ajlasent (536)
• Philippines
14 Oct 12
I guess in some situations this can be true. Some people can love each other but have to be separated by some reasons and the love cannot withstand the current demands of the situation. I think I'm saying this because I'm somewhat speaking from experience. But I understand the point of the other responses above as well.
Sometimes, time does not agree with the feelings/situations people find themselves in, and even if there exists love between to people, it may be the right one, but the current situation cannot allow it to prosper. .