i don't like wedding parties

Romania
October 13, 2012 12:52pm CST
I never enjoyed going to weddings. I know this is going to attract alot of critics from the other fellow mylotters but this is the truth. I find stupid all those rituals that the bride and her husband have to be careful for. they simply can't enjoy their wedding day because they stay stressed all day
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7 responses
@peavey (16936)
• United States
13 Oct 12
You won't get any criticism from me because I detest things like that, too. I don't care for rituals at all, and stretching out something like a wedding seems like a waste of good time and money. Pompous rituals are ridiculous. There, now. They can criticize me, too.
• Romania
13 Oct 12
I'm glad to see that there are other people who share the same opinions as me. here people tend to do large wedding even if they don't necessarely know those people. they invite parent's friends instead of inviting friends of the two getting married. I also hate the fact that they have some sort of schedule...they serve the food, than is dance time, than eating time again and so on. I don't like that
@tedifa (1232)
• Indonesia
16 Oct 12
That was your right swissheart,and the other one have right too to enjoyed that wedding party.They just wanna share their happiness with some guest and family.And i think that was not stupid rituals.But important rituals cause they hope that their wedding blessing by God.Their stress will gone and change with happiness in that wedding party.you can try to come and do it what you're like such as : meet some friends,promote your product,taste the foods.
• United States
13 Oct 12
I am kind of "iffy" towards wedding parties because it depends on the wedding. If it is too traditional, then no, I won't like it, but if it is not, then I might be okay with it.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
14 Oct 12
I want to witness traditional weddings because I want to know and experience the differences and how it feels in real. But with modern/trendy weddings- those seems ordinary to me so I am not that interested to attend unless with immediate family members and close friends.
• Philippines
14 Oct 12
I'm only at a wedding party for the food.They usually serve good food and the only thing I need to do dress nice and smile a few times. After that, I'm back to my normal routine. Not exactly the greatest event if I am a relative of the couple. I'll be part of the crew. I know it's their special day and it happens not so much in a lifetime but they could go simpler if they wanted. I guess some people still have a s thing for grandiose weddings. (then divorce or separation will follow). sigh.
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
14 Oct 12
It really feels not so good coz i'm still single and i love to find my partners.This is so hurt for me.So i would not like to be alone.But honestly,seeing those people are getting married and have their sweet home makes me feel warm.
@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
13 Oct 12
yes i agree with you, wedding parties are going to attract alot of critics from the other fellow mylotters.