why she left me?

It is very very confusing story. I can understand that you had nothing to do. Because she completely ignored you and moved ahead. But i really feel that there was some misunderstanding about her mind regarding you. But now it is too late to react. But friend you have to move on forgetting the past. Best of Luck with your future life. You will definitely get a sweet angel..

It sounds complicated.. Your lost communication when you were far from each other. And now you met her again at Facebook, she is soon to be married but she confesses that she loves you still? Why? Is it because you are talking again? I thought love should be existing with or without contact. But the fact she was the one who ignored you(correct me if I'm wrong). Everything deserves a 2nd chance if you think it's worth it. But of course, be careful with 2nd heartaches especially from the same person. Goodluck!

I'm so sorry to hear that. What comes in my mind after reading your story is that she cant affird herself of having long distance relation. Why I say this cos you said that your relation with her can last for three years during in your college time but your relation was broken when both of you were seperated each other. Maybe she still loved you at that time but, maybe, she needs someone who is always near with her. So when there's another guy gave her more attention to her when you were away, she ignored you and making new relation with someone new who stay nearby. But this is only my opinion. I'm myself is the one who cant have a long distance relation. I need my spouse to be always with me, live near with me so I can spend as much time as I can with my spouse. About you, I think it's better for you to let her go cos her wedding will be held soon. She has chosen some other guy so it's better for you to find another girl to replace her. I'm sure you will find someone nicer and more loyal than her. good luck..

You may never find out why she left you, but the main thing is that she did leave you, got with someone else and now is saying that she wants you back. Bottom-line, be careful. You may want to be with her, but you have to be smart about things and take things slow. If she left you once, she could do it again. Also, it is not a good sign that she is not answering your question; if you ask a woman that you are involved with a question, she should be respectful enough to answer you for the sake of the relationship.

I am sorry to hear that. But it is common to hear such things. Long-distance love is a big problem.

Hello soorajsrs7srs Is she still in New Zealand or now have returned? and are you married right now? I am getting confuse... If you are already married the more you have to stay aware from her so as not to prejudice your marriage and also your children's future. Stay away from temptation for this will not only destroy your family but her life as well. Wish you well...

soorajsrs7srs well thats really confusings she is g etting married bvu t you found each other on Facebook and she s ays she is loving you now also.what about the man she is to Marr y? she sounds really mixed up to mefour years later. if she loves you why did she leave and not c ommunicate with you.all this makes not much sense.I guess she has no good answer for you. I would be careful with this lady ,

I think you can't do anything about the situation now because she is getting married. It is better that you look for another one.

dont believe her. she's confused but i think it's unfair that she is dragging you into her confusion. she's about to get married and is probably getting cold feet but dot let your self be used. man up and ignore her. look for your own bride

its because she thought probably its the right time to move on and catch some one else or you were bored....