things happen for a reason

Romania
October 14, 2012 11:20am CST
it's said that things happen for a reason. but how much i would want which is that reason I"m sick of suffering. ok he left me it's time to move on. I guess I'll make this my life's motto: I"m single because God is busy preparing the best love story for me Could this be the reason?
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@GemmaR (8517)
15 Oct 12
I am strong believer of the fact that everything happens for a reason, but this is something that you cannot fully appreciate until you have come out of the situation. It can be hard when you are going through a difficult time to believe that anything good can come out of it, but sometimes it can be the case. I went through a very hard time a couple of years ago, and I managed to completely turn my life around because of that. I am happier than ever now, and I am so grateful for the bad thing that happened because it opened my eyes to what was really important.
• China
15 Oct 12
Just believe that you will find a better one. There is no one who can not live any more when someone leave him/her. If he leaves you because of you are not the prime one for each other. Please bless him because he has loved you sincerely before.
@artemeis (4194)
• China
15 Oct 12
I am sorry for what you are going through but I hope that you will accept the fact that this breakup is irrecoverable and that it is time to move on. Moving on is mandatory and not by choice. It is learning to love yourself even more and not letting this failure get into you. Do whatever deem fit and get your act together because if you don't you will be unfit physically and emotionally even when the right one do come along. Be with your best friends, family or favorite pets who deserves you more than the heartless bloke. Work harder if you want to or take some time to smell the flowers or a trip. Be constructive than staying behind the desk analyzing and trying to find faults with yourself. Remember too much analysis causes paralysis.
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
15 Oct 12
I do think so.Everything just happened for a reason and then it has a result.I do believe this can happen due to your last sentence.lol,we all expecting best from us so god will give us and we need to wait and believe.Good to you and have your beautiful day.
15 Oct 12
Maybe God waiting that you are already recovered from your past and he would give the right one for you. in life all things happened for a reason maybe we have to stumble to be able to rise up again.. for good. Happy mylotting!
@ramiuniq (56)
• India
15 Oct 12
Its strange that things can happen and leave you suffering.Maybe its for a reason,is our way of consling ourselves.Maybe you are better off now by yourself and that best love story might just happen as you were thinking. You will only know at a much later point in your life as to how it shaped your life.Be strong,and have positive thoughts about what life has in store for you.When you learn to look at the goodness in everything, the universe replaces that void left in your life with love and joy. Hope eveythings gets ok with you and you feel much better:)
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
14 Oct 12
I think this is the same thing I'd have to put in my mind now. Things happen for a reason and maybe God is still preparing that special someone worthy of me. I have to keep that in mind. Be happy and move on. We will never know if this is really the reason until we meet that one person.
@riyauro (6421)
• India
14 Oct 12
Good to see you full of positive attitude. I am happy for you. Of course there is someone better for you out there. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.
@blinjk (617)
• United States
14 Oct 12
It is maybe God's will but you will soon find the right guy that will not hurt you.Just wait and you will see.You will have the love that you are longing for.Maybe,you are right God is preparing something good for you.He just want you to learn.
@mariaperalta (19073)
• Mexico
14 Oct 12
Everything happens in life for a reason. In relationships good and bad ones help us learn. I went through a real bad one, I know Im ready now more for a good one.
• United States
14 Oct 12
Things in life, good and bad, do happen for a reason. I really believe that and I also believe that if a marriage fails it's because the couple weren't right for each other. You have to pray and ask God to send you the right person. I think people marry or go into a relationship for all the wrong reasons and that's why the relationship fails. You'll find the man that is right for you and when you find him, it will be the most beautiful thing. Just trust in the Lord. When I worked with the county my supervisor always said that if God ain't in it, it ain't no good.