Happier now
By ecaron
@ecaron (678)
Canada
October 14, 2012 11:39pm CST
I am working again after a few years of not finding a job. All I had to do was move back to the city I lived in before and I got my old job back right away and I am so happy to have my own money again. The only down side is that my husband is still stuck in that city so we are living apart for now until he finishes his work there.I am going there next weekend to visit him but I can,'t wait for him to move to my city to join me. Did you ever have to be separated from your spouse? How did you manage it, was it hard?
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7 responses
@barood4money (376)
• India
15 Oct 12
I am not married. but i have a sweet girlfriend who loves me very much. I am an Indian and staying in India only. But i used to work in Italy. After coming for vacation in India, i met with her. And within few days we fell in love with each other. I told her before proposing that i have to go Italy back for work and i will return after 2 years.
But after loving her it was very painful to leave her. So i decided that i will not go and i will stay near her. Now i have started my own business. It is true that i am not earning that much what i used to in Italy. But still I am very happy because she is with me.
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@powerpuffgirls (627)
• Philippines
15 Oct 12
I agree with riyauro, What you did is really sweet and would really make your girl happy :3
Cheers~
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
15 Oct 12
My husband works abroad for many years so, I am use to it.
It may looks hard for the first years- but in the long run- you can adjust with the situation.
@prashu228 (37524)
• India
15 Oct 12
yes we feel so happy when we get back our job. Congrats ,hope you enjoy your job once again and full fill all the need of your family.
I lost the job once and was at home for many months and it was hell, but when i again joined in another job, i was so happy with new energy. I am single and live with my parents, so not a problem.
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
15 Oct 12
Hi ecaron! I'm glad that your were able to find a work again. Well, I was assigned in a different place for almost six month so I can not go home regularly to my family. It's really not that easy but knowing that we are doing it for them, it would enough for us to continue with our goals. You can do it.
Good luck! Have a nice day!
@riyauro (6421)
• India
15 Oct 12
I have never been separated because of work purpose till now. My hubby was abroad in italy and Oman and Japan and Malaysia and more places and that was before I met him. I do not want him go abroad. I know his brother who used to be away from home and used to give special appearances at home. Now he has lots of problems with family life. He is in love with a colleague and though he is come back for good, still he is in love with the other girl. It is sad. There are many cases like this I have seen because one or 2 person of a household here in Goa are abroad.
I am happy for you that you got your job back and doing good. I hope your hubby makes it faster to be with you. Thanks so sharing and have a wonderful day ahead
@powerpuffgirls (627)
• Philippines
15 Oct 12
Wow~ great to hear that you have your job back. Well it's really hard separated from your love one. I am not married yet but I know the feeling of being separated. You can just visit him there or maybe he will visit you in your city too. Just talk to him more often on the phone or online.
@natliegleb (5175)
• India
15 Oct 12
that is a hard thing to manage work and spouse,its better to balance those or else we would end in trouble,initially it was difficult,now its fine