take advantage

hi, people now a days are very hard to notice if they only using you for there advantages,those people will let you to fall in love with them and after you fall then they will do their next plan,and i think those people are those materialistic people.

well people tend to take advantage of those who show them love and of those who cared for them. for me, the most painful done to me was that when my ex cheated on me. it sure made me feel the worst during those days of my discover of what he did. im just glad that i was over that now.

I don't think that it is very easy at all to be able to know why some people do or don't love you. When I first fell in love with a boy, I thought that he loved me because of the fact that he would always spend a lot of time with me. In fact, it just turned out that he didn't love me in that way but he just thought that we were good friends. It was a shame but I learned from it, and now I know that I am never going to let anybody else take advantage of me in that way again. It is something that I have had to learn the hard way.

If you always give, and he doesn't, that's one clue that he doesn't love you. Another clue is when you're with him but his eyes are always glued on other sexy and pretty girls.

There is no sure fire way of telling whether the love that these people tell us is true or not. Some people are quite good in fooling other people into believing that their intentions are pure. These people are no better than scammers because they only use people for their own selfish reasons and even toy with their feelings. We can only be more observant and be wary of any red flags and warning signs when it comes to people who would take advantage of us. Like outrageous excuses, or reasons that doesn't seem to add up, those sort of things.

I'm currently on my first relationship. So far I can say that I am very happy with my partner. Pain/misunderstanding comes to us when we are lacking communications only.

I know a guy who was having affair with two girls at a time. The worst part was that one of the girls knew that he is in affair with my friend and yet she accepted his proposal. Both the guy and girl could have spoken to my friend frankly and broken up with her before getting indulged in such an affair. My friend got to know that 3 or 4 months later or so and she broke up with that guy. I feel pity for that girl, because it was her 'first love', and can imagine how bad she would have felt. It was then difficult for her to recover from the shock and she started being skeptical about each and every person around her. The worst thing about that guy was that he moved on to another(3rd) girl in the similar manner(by betraying my friend's friend). I felt happy because that girl would have now learnt how much it would pain when a friend betrays you.

indeed there are some people who take advantage of our vulnerability when we feel helplessly in love. they hurt us. and we wonder why they could do something like that to us. however, there are many people who truly love us. and i am going to focus more on them rather than those who pretend to love us just to take advantage of us. these are the people who give us the utmost joy to our lives.