Why some people bully overweight people?

@katie0 (5203)
Japan
October 15, 2012 4:22am CST
I don't feel they bother me or get angry by their presence, it's just normal people but I know there's a bullying going on for example with women that didn't recover their body fast enough after pregnancy, that Melissa Gorga did an experiment of 4 hours make up and pretend she was huge and people were saying horrible things to her on the NY streets. So sad, why? What about the inside beauty? Why the pattern in beauty? Since when skinny, huge lips and breasts is the sexy trend? I rather Marilyn Monroe's nice tighs than too skinny, how about you guys?
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9 responses
• Indonesia
16 Oct 12
in my view, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so nothing to worry about the outer beauty or appearance. you don't have to worry about what people said. be confident of who you are, then you are beautiful...
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
16 Oct 12
Yes, but I'm the type of if I see bullying I get in the middle, it bothers me to no end. I got into it twice, once almost got hit by bigger girls. They are so coward. But I'd do it again, I just don't forgive bullying.
• Indonesia
2 Nov 12
yeah, I understand what you felt. it's uncomfortable situation of course, but don't you think it could add your trouble?
@babyeve (1048)
• Seychelles
16 Oct 12
Because they do not have a heart. I do not bully overweight people, I on the other hand try to make them feel comfortable and happy. I also give them advices on how to lose weight. Some people are overweight because of their illness and therefore we cannot tease them. Even if some are not ill and are overweight because they eat far too much we must still respect them as a human being deserves to.
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
16 Oct 12
Yes, maybe it all comes to that, they are bad, bad people. We either have compassion or not, there are those who don't have and still try to at least use the head to do the right thing.
@wongchoiyee (7413)
• Malaysia
15 Oct 12
So what is the point bullying people? Are they worthless? I used to have passion in music so much that I even pretend them when walking on the streets, people and neighbours saw the difference on me and started bullying me, saying nasty words which I don't even dare to speak to people who get bullied. I don't bully people for as long as I live, I like to get close and communicate with people I know, bullying can be illegal one day if I raise this topic in our neighbourhood, hopefully people can be aware of bullying.
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
16 Oct 12
I'm so sorry! I think deep inside they were jealous of you cause you dared to be yourself. Bullies are actually coward people, when a person laughs of others they are terrified inside, that's why they find cruelty funny.
@GemmaR (8517)
15 Oct 12
I don't think that it is ever just overweight people who get bullied. One of the bad things about the modern world is that a lot of people tend to get bullied regardless of what it is that is different about them, as long as there is something that other people could pick up on. One of the things that I was bullied about was my weight, so I lost 115 pounds to try and make it a little bit better, and now people just choose to pick on me for other things instead. It is a shame, but it just seems to be the way that the world is.
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
16 Oct 12
Yes, the unforgivable is physically challenged, like they don't have challenge enough. People get looked down at for being in a lower social level and for so many reasons, it's all cruel.
@sjvenden27 (1840)
• United States
16 Oct 12
First off I do not have a problem with people that are overweight.. Some of my friends that are overweight have tried everything they can to lose weight but they couldnt do it.. Somethings that one did was so sad.. Then I asked her why she was doing it; she told me so she could look good again.. I was so ready to cry.. I told her she looked so beautiful to me.. Doesnt matter the weight; as long as you are healthy.. The only time I would have a problem with anyone that was overweight would be if their health was at risk and they were not willing to work on it.. But I would never bully a person.. Thats so wrong and it really hurts.. I am not overweight but I have some phyiscal problems that people would and or still do.. Judging people is wrong period!!!!!
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
16 Oct 12
That's great, me too. The important is the inside beauty, a persons' heart, goodness, compassion...
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
15 Oct 12
Maybe because people believe that beauty is all about physical looks. They never knew how important inside beauty is. I have seen people being bullied because they are chubby or fat- but those chubby/fat people are much better or good people compared to other good looking ones.
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
16 Oct 12
That's great, there are many people that see others for who they are. We need more people like you
@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
15 Oct 12
It would be boring if every person looked the same. It is interesting in life that a person has a particular eye color, hair color and body shape. Many teenagers are thin but once they get older they put on lots more weight. Weight can be hard to lose after pregnancy. It can be challenging to look after a newborn baby and do lots of exercising. A young baby needs lots of care around the clock. The mom can feel tired and not have enough time for healthy eating and lots of exercise. It was interesting that Melissa did an experiment with makeup and padding and got nasty things said to her on the New York streets. Beauty can be inside. We say never judge a book by its cover. I wouldn't ever be horrible to a person because of the way he or she looked.
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
16 Oct 12
Definitely! I'm not gonna say that if there's that gorgeous guy that I don't look but I've met gorgeous guys that were ugly in a day or even in 2 hours, for being arrogant or clearly a bad person. Inside beauty is very bright, much more than physical, it just be stamped on the person's face, in their smile and even to think about good people makes our heart warm.
@pals101 (2010)
• Philippines
15 Oct 12
You can never please everybody.. I am sorry for your friend.. Anyway, if this happen I think the best way is just to ignore..cause deep inside it's not true. But If the bullying goes beyond, then its good to just file a case in order this person to learn..
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
16 Oct 12
You are sweet person, it was not my friend actually and I'm thin but I guess bullying bothers me to no end and I feel so sad for when someone is overweight. Yes ignoring can be good, the bad thing is also this new trending of people showing in the internet their weight loss and saying someone bullied them and they decided to change, that could be a backfire against overweight people maybe.
@Raine38 (12391)
• United States
15 Oct 12
I think these people just don't know any better and they themselves are insecure with their own selves that they have to resort to bullying and taunting others so they will feel good. These people obviously hasn't moved on with their lives, I mean, the last people should do this is after they went to kindergarten. At least these kids have an excuse, they don't really know any better and they are yet to experience real life outside the playground. It is really sad that grown men and women would do this.
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
15 Oct 12
Oh the making someone feels like c*** so we can feel good thing, that's right. Bullies do that too. I feel so sorry cause even if they are overweight because they eat too much to bully just can make this person go even more miserable, and also what if the overweight person doesn't even eat that much, there are so many health problems these days that people just don't know why they gain weight...