If I am neutral, am I bad?

I don't think there's anything wrong with staying away from trouble, if that is what you mean. I choose to remain like that, too. When I don't like somebody, I avoid them, therefore avoiding unnecessary harm or trouble. I try to be nice all the time and as long as they are nice to me, then I have no reason to be otherwise.

Well, I think that if neutral is bad, then we are all bad because I tend to think that there are far more people in the world that we don't have any kind of feelings for one way or the other. You see, there are some people that do make some kind of an impact on our life and those people we will end up having feelings for one way or the other. However, most of the people that we encounter in our lives are people that we don't have the opportunity to get to know and therefore we are indifferent to those people.

very nice person that you are girl. thats quite wise. much better then being mean. i try that and mostly live by that way of life myself. the only time i mess up with the live and let live attitude is when someone refuses to leave me alone themselves. which can happen from time to time

Being neutral as a general characteristic is a good sign. This means that you show maturity and can stay as a professional especially in dealing with people you hate at work but you also need to remember to draw a line. You'll get abused in the future if those do not set a line for those people. You might also consider the other person's feeling and sincerity. Sometimes, we tend to hate someone without that person knowing why and since that person didn't know what he/she was doing wrong he/she will continue to do it.

I am usually neutral in many things and I don't apologize for it. If I don't have a stake in the matter, I don't go out of my way to make trouble for myself. Like you, I have my own dislike of people and not to make things worst, I usually treat with respect but no otehr than that. I cna't love everybody and I don't expect everyone to love or even like me People are just like that. For me, the compromise is that I don't bother them and they don't bother me. Better t stay simple and uncomplicated. However they are people who are wanted to be loved by everybody and turn annoying. I don't want to why but I think it is a good balance that you love and you also hate people. For me, that's a sigh of sanity.

I think that's the best way to be. If you don't like someone why bother with them? And, like you said, you don't try to do anything bad to them. I was friendly at work once with someone I did not like. No one else liked her either but I was friendly and nice to her. She stabbed me in the back many times and tried to get me in trouble all the time. And she lied constantly. Because I had seniority and a good reputation the boss knew better than to believe anything she said and she never created a problem for me. I finally, after the last lie she told, stopped speaking to her altogether. After I told her what a liar she was. I said it more professionally than that. But then, when confronted by me, she tried to blame other people who had nothing to do with any of it. So I mostly do like you - stay away from people you don't like. If it's at work be professional but that's it.

There is nothing wrong with doing nothing or saying nothing to this person.. You do not like that person.. Why waste your time.. Two thumbs up for not trying to do the opposite and in one way or another hurt this person.. Its simply not worth it.. I found out that when you do nothing and say nothing it actually does more then telling the person off or what ever may be the case.. This person will have no idea what you are thinking, and possibly wont know why.. Especially if you do not tell anyone else that both of you talk to...

Lol, I understand what you want to say here. I don't think that being neutral with them is like being bad, but goodness doesn't come naturally. I am like that too, also because I am not readily open with a new person and I little shy type person who takes time to open up to someone. If a talking big mouth come to me and starts talking all so much then I am probably going to be like ... lol... but talking doesn't make a person bad, of course. And talking about really annoying people, I don't even feel like talking to them. Not like they are my enemies but, you know, it doesn't come naturally.

Of course not my friend. Just like you i would also do the same. It's no use being with them, if what they are doing isn't to my approval. Thus, i chose to just distance myself from them. But that doesn't mean that i am bad, but i just want to stay away from being corrupted by bad people.

Oh you seem very angry right now. yeah we all have such people whom we love and some whom we don't like but do not react to the ones you don't like. They are fine and good but you are fuming and wasting your energy. Just don't bother. Be cool and do not think about them at all. think that they do not exist. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.

If you do not show your friendly to those people around you,even though you do not hurt them,they know you that you do not like them,so they will do not like you as well then if there something happen to you they will insult you,so in my opinion,I think even though you do not like some people you should also treat them just as the same as others around then you will have less trouble.

In my opinion, being neutral doesn't mean you are being bad. For me it only means that you tolerate them, you are civil and learn to co-exist with them with minimal interaction so they wouldn't get into your nerves thereby avoiding conflicts. I think this is a better way to handle them than try to be friendly with them while your seething inside; or worse, show them what they deserve.

I don't really know what to say here but I myself is a person who shows who I am. To avoid hurting people I dislike, I must be reminded that I too can be annoying to others. As a Christian, I was just like others bad guys before. I was just forgiven and considered a saint in Christ's account. Those people needs Christ as well.

You are not bad.I am neutral too.It is very normal to be neutral to people.Everyone has the people that they love and people that they hate.It is a living way of life.Just to be yourself and walk your road.It is not important that others how to think of it.

Neutral is okay. It doesn't give you enemies and it keeps you away from troubles. Plus being neutral is a preference so if you prefer it that way then go ahead. Be neutral all you want.

Well, if neutral is bad then I'm bad too! I can't say that I hate some one though, I'd prefer to say that I might not like them. When there are people that annoy me or I just don't like I'm still friendly to them. I won't go out of my way to be friendly and if at all possible I will ignore them. By that I mean to say if they start a conversation, I will respond to them, but I won't start a conversation first.