I'm finally on my own

I know form other people's experience that the number one enemy of living alone or working abroad is homesickness. I hope that you will be able to adapt to your new situation soon, so that you would be able to perform normal or better in whatever it is you need to be doing. I wish you good luck in all your endeavors!

You are very brave to be living on your own especially in a foreign country. For me the first time I broke away from my parents it was one big adventure. I needed my own space, independence, a place to be who I wanted to be, go where I wanted and not have to answer questions. It was fun and scary, you are stepping out of your comfort zone so it's a big shock to the system. I cope better when I live on my own, everything is your responsibility all the bills, food etc... But you soon get used to it.

So, finally you are now in a foreign place, Toni. It's just but natural that you miss your family Toni. That is just now. But as the days goes by, your homesickness will already surface. Just be ready for it and i know you are a strong woman and "carry mo yan".

Okay, so if I understand correctly, you currently are living away from home and your family. I understand. On the one hand the desire of independence, but from the other, feel very lack of your loved ones. However, this also happens to me when I'm away. This is despite I do not have good relationships with my family, especially with my brother. I am sure that you wait for the day to go home and hug your loved ones. I wish you all the happiness of the world, my dear friend!

i know, once we start living alone ,we feel free and on top of the world. But some problems do come, but slowly we learn to do things and come out of it. Many times we miss our family , and the home made food, the company etc, but still i feel we should learn to live alone and learn things on our own. This helps us in our life , to solve the problems and see life in wide angle.

I dream to be separated from my parents,but at this stage can not happen.Certainly they will miss me but it comes time to spare from them,be it accommodation ,another city or another country if you want.When i left alone for two three weeks maybe one month somehow the firs days i feel very nice and free ,but when those days get more and more i feel more their absence.And of course when they return from where they were i want they go back.Surely the time will com to leave the house and this will be difficult ,but what the hell lek's take it to overcome difficulties :)

Did you left the country for some reason? so you found work in a very far away place and then went to an apartment? i hope your friend would get along with you and get you used to the places there.well, do you miss your hubby and kids? i didn't realize you went into a different job i guess taking care of some papers before going on.

living in our home is like living in heaven. where ever you go, where ever you stay, even in five star hotel also you can see the hell... our home and our parents are our ultimate strength. and do your works yourself then you feel better. i can do my works myself only.

where are you living now toni?^^ i wish you be happy in that new country. you went there to work? i think that each day more people is going away from their family so they can find a job and save some money for a better life. im sorry that you are far from family. its good to feel you can do things on your own. but at the same time is always good to feel that if something goes wrong we have those people there for us^^ anyway im sure they are proud of you and miss you a lot too.

This is exactly I felt when I came to India for the first time. It was because of the scholarship that I got. I liked the freedom and being alone in a totally new place which is far from homeland. Far and wide there is no one you know. So much things to discover, a different life style and a different language. It was all so fun filled. I too missed my parents but it was my time and I really had it. I have been back home and came back to marry this guy with whom I was in love with while my stay in India. So I had my time. Now I wanna tell you that this is the starting of your time with you. So be smart and have fun wherever you are. I am happy you trying to adjust and look forward to live alone. best one. Have fun. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.