I'm busy knowing her dislike not her likes.

You're not like other guys I think (busy knowing and searching for your wife's likes/dislikes). Maybe because you're far away with each other? or she's pregnant? (sounds weird to me). I mean, why do you have to do that? The danger thing with that is you might misunderstood your wife. For me, you can ask her and discuss things with her. Its the connection that matters and how you manage your likes and dislikes.

I agree it is better to know what our partner doesn't like to avoid argument and misunderstanding. Besides, it is easy to determine what our partner wants and likes compared to what they doesn't like or hate.

It is very thoughtful of you. However, I am not sure which is much more important. Knowing her likes or dislikes? But perhaps I think you shall also try to know what her likes. Try to imagine if you give her a gift, isn't it better that you will give her something she dreams for? As to me, I prefer my husband to know what is my favorite.

I think you should be conscious of both. If you paid extra attention to her likes and made an effort to make them happen then she would probably not worry too much if you accidentally stumbled on a dislike :)

Sorry but when it comes to women the best you can do indeed is to find what she hates cause that's more unberable than you forget her likes. Give her the type of presents she wants on your anniversary as a couple and her birthday and focus on knowing what she hates , it really works.

I think most people would be concentrating on knowing what their partner's likes because we want our partner to be happy with us. For me, knowing what my husband likes helps a lot coz I really go out of my way to show and give him what he likes. His dislikes, well, I just learn them along the way.

wow thats a great motive atleast in that way you can prevent from doing disliking activities.its a great move

when I read your first sentence, I was like, what a bad husband. lol sorry. it's nice to have a husband like you, a husband that follows everything we, girls, want. it's just I think it's nice too to know what my boyfriend likes and dislikes. when he comes everything just exactly as me, I would think, first he's avoiding arguing with me, second he's bored with me, third he doesn't know what he really wants. for me, the third actually is the least appealing kind of guy. so did you find them? the things your wife doesn't like. my boyfriend is the kinda same type as you. he just goes fine with what I want. though I did manage to find his favorite things and things he prefers to do, also the things he hates. I tried almost everything to find it out. and I am happy about it. yes yes, I am such a troll girlfriend. XD

its good to know someone. But sometimes its better not to know all things. have a great day there.

To be honest,what you are doing now has already shown your love of her.As myself,I often gave some candy to my girlfriend because she likes.But I think what I have done is not enough.So it's same to you.If your wife could know your effort in mylot.com she'd be happy.So just hold on,be with her.Good luck.What's more,you're handsome,and your wife is beautiful.